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To me it feels like a matured Reddit. (At least most of the time πŸ™ƒ)

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[–] samus12345@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

I like the smaller, early internet feeling, but miss the niche communities. Although Reddit is so damn huge that even the niche communities have so many comments that unless you catch something right when it's posted, anything you say gets lost in the flood.

[–] wick@lemm.ee 12 points 1 year ago

General meme and news posts feel basically the same as Reddit. A lot more Linux circle jerking, probably a bit more left leaning. I do miss the days before I knew what ml's were though.

[–] LagrangePoint@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

To be honest, it's not particularly great. But it sucks less than Reddit, so....

[–] Alpha71@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago (6 children)

It's all right. But it's a ghost town compared to reddit.

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[–] GoofSchmoofer@lemmy.world 12 points 1 year ago

I actually appreciate the slower content on Lemmy. Keeps me from continually scrolling for that dopamine hit.

[–] drislands@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago (2 children)

I'm enjoying it somewhat. It's much more populated by people with similar interests to mine, e.g. Linux and D&D, but it's also more populated by aggressive and ignorant commenters who are all too eager to be contrary and smug.

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[–] LifeOfChance@lemmy.world 11 points 1 year ago

It's super political and tech based. Feels like if you don't use Linux or Firefox you're an outcast. I still use it often just not as often as I did with reddit.

[–] livus@kbin.social 10 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I'm really happy with it. People here are mostly thoughtful, smart, and post interesting content. Less fighting, less toxicity, no shills in political discussions because it's not big enough, no corporate astroturfing (the closest we come to that is adderall spam ha ha).

It feels healthier to me than reddit, which I think I had probably been addicted to. Being on Kbin I never have to run out of content because of the "microblogs" section which has Mastodon, and my multireddit style "collections" (like this news one). But I also find it easier to put my phone down.

Also I find it hilarious that although I do still see occasional screeching about US liberals, over here it's because the poster wants "the libs" to be more left wing not more right wing.

[–] XPost3000@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 year ago

Honestly, not that great

It was really good at the start of the exodus, when I felt like I could write and be read, instead of missing the post by like an hour and being the 10,000th comment

And the community was good, too But now it seriously feels stagnant in an active way

I don't really know if it's because of Lemmy itself, or because "Eternity for Lemmy" was named after it's update schedule, but every day on this app feels completely identical to every other day Just politics, Linux, and bad memes That is basically the reddit experience, I will admit, but on here there are basically zero active niche communities, and basically deserts of fandoms

I think Lemmy did get a sort method to try and accommodate more niche communities, but like I said "Eternity" is the update schedule, so whatever that may be I don't have access to it

And I think that's a really big thing, actually My app of choice is abandonware compared to other clients, I've reported a bug that gets under my skin 6 months ago and there hasn't been a single update, so i have to live with accidentally opening posts all the time and I hate it

I really really like this client otherwise, but I might just move to a better client or a fork of the same project, I don't know

I also don't have instance blocking, either, so that's fun

[–] Shyfer@ttrpg.network 10 points 1 year ago

To me, it feels like old Reddit, so it's very comfortable despite all the differences and initial growing pains picking an instance. Like finding an old friend and meeting up with them for lunch after many years.

[–] caesaravgvstvs@feddit.de 10 points 1 year ago (4 children)

I'm really hoping that the smaller communities dedicated to a topic start getting more traction, although I'm not doing much myself to make them grow

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[–] Zozano@lemy.lol 9 points 1 year ago

It's good, but I really don't want to see as much circlejerking as much as I do.

Unless you want to reduce your feed to the bare minimum, you need to see the the trinity of political posts, Linux conversations and memes.

[–] berryjam@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (9 children)
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Matured? Really? I guess you haven't had a taste of the defederation drama. Users are great, but discussion between admins feel like the constant bickering of small children. And I say this as an admin myself, who at times does take part in those discussions. I think we still have a long way to go, when it comes to being matured.

[–] SendMePhotos@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I like it but tbh I miss the NSFW Gifs/Videos. I also have learned some topics not to talk about. Like Windows/Linux, bashing furries, or anything that is not far left (gender stereotypes, guns, etc.).

I don't browse enough maybe to find active niche communities. Typically spend most of my time browsing all on top 6 hrs. Else I see the same posts for like 2-3 days.

It's a change but feels more like... I'm talking to real people instead of guessing who's a bot.

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I like it. It's a bit smaller, but that means I can actually read through most of the comments. It's very slightly left of me, which creates good food for thought as well.

It does run of the issue of having a heavier tankie and "both sides bad" presence, but that's preferable to the alternative. I also like that I recognize some users.

Most importantly? I feel like I'm contributing to a conversation here. On Reddit it was just like shouting my opinion into the void.

[–] Yoz@lemmy.world 9 points 1 year ago

I have noticed that many users are highly technical. I am not technical at all yet I am here because my technical friend showed me how to sign up and which app to use. I think people from marketing background should create guides / poster on how to use Lemmy for people like me who dont have a technical friends.

[–] Marin_Rider@aussie.zone 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

not a huge fan to be honest. the discourse has become very toxic, the reddit hivemind was silly but here don't you pretty much have to be an extremist or suffer all manner of rediculous replies. apparently taking a balanced view to literally any topic gives one the label of "fascist" around here, cheapening the word and killing legit discussion.

I liked it when it was mainly that picard dude posting memes

its not the site that's the problem. it's the "community"

What is kind of putting me off Lemmy is the amount of tankies. I understand they are actually far left from Reddit who migrated, but they're just damn idiots and are simping for Putin (yes, I'm aware that some of them could be St Petersburg-based Russian trolls larping as tankies).

[–] sharkfucker420@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I miss the hyper niche communities and fandoms but other than that I enjoy it just as much if not more

I really enjoy that in small communities I can come across usernames I recognize and develope an idea of what kind of people they may be or be able to continue a bit that I'd started in another thread.

[–] GregorGizeh@lemmy.zip 9 points 1 year ago

It certainly has its own distinct culture at this point, sometimes annoyingly so. Probably a consequence of the very skewed demographic still making up most of the people here. It also has less content, which is good for the comment quality but bad for scrolling.

Overall I like it here, though I often wish the memes were a bit better. Now I’m not a teenager myself but especially the more generic communities often have a distinct boomer and/or low effort flavor.

I'm trying to like it more but it's just way more depressing than reddit, and the depressing news makes its way into most communities. Maybe I just need to cater my subs a bit more but I wanted like a little bit of news and politics to stay informed otherwise I went on reddit to have fun and destress. Can't really say I can do that here the way it is.

[–] TronnaRaps@lemmy.ca 8 points 1 year ago

Under populated, but I come here often!

[–] redfox 8 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

I spent some time reading a significant number of the replies, so I'll offer this as a suggestion for some of the repeated themes regarding overbearing political stance, decisive topics, etc:

  • encourage and support people discussing matters from an open perspective, trying to take a less decisive stance, or being open to different sides

  • encourage people and participate in conversation with people who show compassion or agree to disagree rather than write people off

  • ask questions instead of assuming

  • sometimes, opinions don't have to be right/wrong

  • opinions aren't facts

[–] AbouBenAdhem@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

It’s like Reddit from 2007, if everyone were expecting it to be like Reddit from 2017. (E.g., creating fragmented, fine-grained sub-communities before the coarser-grained communities are saturated.)

[–] Squizzy@lemmy.world 8 points 1 year ago

It's less engaging, same stories hanging around active for days with minimal engagement.

It's just quieter here

[–] Speiser0@feddit.de 8 points 1 year ago

It sucks up too much of my time. So it's working. πŸ‘

I have ended up in a "view all and block" mode rather than a "subscribe to a curated list" mode because of the smaller community. That means I need to block a lot more communities I am not interested in and users that are just... Outside my window of civility or politics that I can handle. Raging tankies, for example.

[–] Tylerdurdon@lemmy.world 7 points 1 year ago (5 children)

Most of the time is great, but there's hive mind here too. If you're against running closed captions on your TV for example. That was the most recent I got bombed for, but there have been other times.

Most of the time it's more adult, but sometimes it's just like Reddit.

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[–] MonkderZweite@feddit.ch 7 points 1 year ago

Less content but the quality/shit ratio is higher here.

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