Gotcha. I like that approach. Thanks!
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I've never used object storage before, so I'm not even sure that's the best approach for the use case. It makes sense when you need to access storage provided by a 3rd party in a standardized way, but perhaps it's overkill when everything is self hosted. I wonder if folks have other ways to connect the application to remote storage that's less "heavy." That said, I will certainly dig into Minio, as it seems to be the best of breed. Thanks!
Congrats!
I use HWK gear and find it to be pretty good. Something is better than nothing, and while you get what you pay for, you also get diminishing returns as you move up the cost scale. Plenty of people ride squid (no gear) all the time. Some of them crash, get road rash, heal, and continue to ride squid. It's all about your personal tolerance for risk, your personal financial situation, etc. Just know that every day clothes like denim jeans offer pretty much no protection at all.
Welcome to the life
Thanks for your perspective. You are right that I was indeed acting like a hurt spouse. For a little clarity, one of our children was at work at the time I confronted her. We had to wait about 90 min for him to come home. So, she had that time to think about what she was going to say, it wasn't so immediate as I made it seem.
For added clarity, I don't have mixed feelings, I feel very confident that I did the right thing here. But I recognize that we don't always see everything from our own perspective, so I sought to broaden my view. You helped provide a perspective I couldn't see, so thank you. I was also hoping to provide a good topic for a rich post on Lemmy that would spur some participation and discussion. I'm glad so many are providing their opinions.
Oh yes, she's entitled alright. Lawyers got involved. The laws here are very clear. She walks away with half of everything, plus 20% of my income for the next 14 years. The thanks I get for working hard to support her for 25 years so she could have an easier life. She won't need money, and I won't have any left to take
I agree that r/dataisbeautiful turned out to be very political. What I saw was that the community was rather united in its political stance and if someone made a post that was out of line with the community's ideology they got roasted. The reaction was rarely about how the information could have been portrayed more intuitively, or how the data could have been stronger. Those reactions were for posts that were in line. Others were downright attacked. It certainly wasn't about making data beautiful
Thank you so much. A lot of great points here. Thanks for taking the time
In retrospect, I am glad she didn't have a chance to spin her own story. She totally would have
I now understand why Lemmy is called "link aggregator" software