Dislodge3233

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[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 19 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

My mom says I'm very important ... so I'll assume this was a state actor

But yeah, this is most likely. I changed my settings to lock faster with a longer pin

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 11 points 2 years ago (3 children)

Yeah. Definitely setting that up now haha. They used my phone to call my contacts, so I don't have their number

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 5 points 2 years ago (2 children)

Yeah, but the calls were from my phone, so I think they would have to open it

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 6 points 2 years ago

Graphene has and emergency dialer, but you can't call my contacts from it.

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 18 points 2 years ago (9 children)

Fingerprint and pin code. They left the phone at a store nearby and I went to pick it up

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 6 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Yeah. It was clearly good will. Even the banking, they probably didn't realize the app was banking (foreign bank). Signal was Molly, so they honestly were personally confused since I run KISS Launcher.

The problem is that they used my phone to call my contacts.

 

I'm running Graphene on a Pixel 6. I lost it and someone opened it somehow and called two of my contacts to give it back.

I'm a bit confused how this even happened. When I got the phone back, they were going through my contacts. I checked app usage stats and they went through a banking app (not missing money), maps, signal, etc.

Is there a way to figure out how they even unlocked my phone?

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 5 points 2 years ago

I got ads for sexual assault therapy after I talked to my friend about my assault. I was livid. The audacity to try to make money off assault victims.

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 2 points 2 years ago

Use OnlyKey for master passwords

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 18 points 2 years ago

And then parents wonder why their children don't talk about their private lives.

Not only would you have emotionally abused me. When the state protects me, you would have sued for the right to abuse me.

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 5 points 2 years ago

Wait till they learn about prostates

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 1 points 2 years ago

So look at the drug war, war on terrorism, money laundering sanctions, international tax evasion measures. The US and EU basically force the world to comply.

Imagine the EU and US are fully on board and say Australia decides no. What would happen to the Australian economy if they suddenly were barred from trading the dollar and euro. Australia is a big country and would be on the US/EU side. Imagine if Mexico or Croatia tried that. No chance.

Extreme? We did that to Russia during the Ukraine invasion.

This isn't difficult. They just don't care enough.

[–] Dislodge3233@feddit.de 7 points 2 years ago (1 children)

Fair point. I wonder if this is a conscious decision or if they are just weird. No judgement to larping. I'm weird too, just not violent.

 

My kid [3yrs] speaks the local language with his other parent (separated. 50/50). and English with me (my native language). I speak both and my kid knows this, so I can't hide it.

He speaks the local language well, but English is a struggle. Comprehension is 100%, but he only speaks random words. He mostly speaks to me in the local language. Where we live, he will learn English in school, so I'm not worried about that.

I've tried various things to get him speaking English, but it's a struggle.

Are there any strategies that might work?

 

I didn't see this on any privacy guide, but with minimal work, you can have a cloud drive that's accessible from your phone and laptop.

Basically setup Rclone mounted => Rclone crypt => Rclone + Backblaze. Dump all your files and it works like a normal cloud drive. Android Rclone client is here https://github.com/newhinton/Round-Sync/releases

Round Sync let's you setup Cronjobs so you can backup all your photos or whatever automatically. I have a job that syncs all my photos to my drive every couple days.

I store a lot in Backblaze and it's <1USD/mo. I can provide details if there is interest.

 

I'm preparing to file a complaint that may result in retaliation. My company might try to lay me off to make me go away. What should I do to prepare?

I'm currently,

  • collecting performance reviews
  • evidence that they are not planning to lay me off at the moment
  • evidence to support my complaint

Anything else I should do?

 

I'm in the market for books that normalize poly parenting. I have the Red Stroller for normalizing different family types (eg. single parent, gay, interracial).

My child's other parent (separated) is very conservative and my family is too. I'm not trying to "push" poly, but prepare my kid mentally/emotionally if people say shit about me. I still have several years before I would need to come out.

 

For example, ones that implement these guidelines? https://madaidans-insecurities.github.io/guides/linux-hardening.html

Alternatively, packages for Fedora that would set this up automatically

 

Where I live, Google Maps is the only mapping option.

Is there anyway to download the route as .ics to add to Proton Calendar?

 

Lesbians have Sappho to get cute stuff from. I'm looking for something similar for men, that's pro-gay or anti homophobe.

Needs to be subtle and an "if you know you know" vibe because I want to make art things in a homophobic area.

Any ideas?

 
 

I called some people I'm seeing partners, but got scolded by a friend because I guess partner means a relationship that's more "serious". My friend suggested calling them lovers.

I'm emotionally involved with all my people and I care about them. I just get an ick from labels and relationship ladders (abusive family).

I'm looking for a word that's unassuming, but clearly says "I'm not single" so I can easily be honest with monogamous people.

Any suggestions? Lover sounds a little too much like cheating.

 

I read things like "70% of emissions are by large energy companies". It often seems to be followed by claims that individual action is insignificant.

The logic seems off because if everyone stopped buying from those companies, then the emissions would be gone. Or in effect, buying from those companies buys you a share of the emissions.

Is there a good breakdown of the emissions? What percent is attributable to the consumer? Am I missing something?

 

What are your ways of finding the poly people in your local area? Do you have a community and meetups?

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