Lots of people suggesting thrifting. One suggestion I have there is to go with someone who is "good" at it for lack of a better term. I have a friend who is a thrift queen and she routinely finds things that are great whereas I can almost never find the good stuff!
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Is your girlfriend someone I went to high school with? Because I heard a rumor about a girl getting this same tattoo after graduation.
Oh this is so fucking le epic awesomesauce
I got in an argument with my mother a few years ago about support for Palestine / criticism of Israel. Her argument was basically "we just can't tell apart the antisemites from the legitimate support so we just shouldn't have a movement." It makes me think that the Washington Post decides to write about posts like this every once and awhile and actually write things like that. "but sorry the whole movement is antisemitic" and that's where we get that absolutely fucking insane argument from.
Ryan Grim news for the Democrats 
Can't wait until Biden loses Michigan to Trump and it costs him the electoral college!
Critical support for comrade coastal erosion
Sorry I was in transit when I replied and forgot to follow up. Not sure if you have acted yet, but yes starting with a counselor at the university may be a good first step. Some counselors have open door policies where you can just walk in and seek advice on things. I would begin by stressing the complexity of the situation and you not wanting to involve law enforcement.
There are also phone hotlines for this kind of thing. Both locally with the university or otherwise. But yeah first step for me would be explaining the complexity and not wanting to involve law enforcement. Any therapist or counselor who ignores or handwaves this away should be ignored in favor of someone else or another avenue.
Good luck. I will check back later.
I agree with part of what the other poster said. Might be worth searching around if there are organizations or therapists that could intervene. Try to reach out directly to the medical community as opposed to involving law enforcement. Good luck and I'm sorry to hear about this situation.
This is my favorite episode of Weeds

I was watching the basketball game that was on before 60 minutes with my partner's family. When that 60 minutes intro came on and the guy said "Russia" I burst out laughing. Luckily no one noticed haha