PhoenixDog

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[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 2 points 58 minutes ago

What is a queer spectrum?

Just a term I've heard for different flavours of queer. Bi, Pan, Gay, Lesbian, Ace/Aro, etc.

What is “pan married”? As opposed to normal marriage?

So I am married to my partner. Before I met them (They're trans/enby) they had a girlfriend for I think about 7 years? I married my partner. Since then I have two girlfriends myself and they've found a boyfriend on top of their girlfriend. So we both have two individual relationships outside of our marriage. And they're full on mono-like relationships. I love my girlfriends; emotionally, romantically, and sexually. We have sex outside of my marriage and everything is all on the up-and-up with my married partner. My partner is less sexually charged as I am.

So basically, I am married and have two other full relationships and my partner has two other full relationships that aren't me. And those relationships carry the same pros and cons as any relationship. I could be up late on the phone because something happened. One of my gf's dad got diagnosed with cancer so I've done my best to be emotionally available for her when she needs it.

Pan isn't just "Look at us and all the sex we have". If you think one relationship is a lot of work, we both have three lol.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 1 points 1 hour ago* (last edited 57 minutes ago) (1 children)

(also totally unrelated, but it’s usually spelled polycule)

Holy crap I didn't realize how badly I butchered that. I forgot the L for god's sake. How on Earth did I manage that?

Also, my apologies if I came off as attempting to dismiss your feelings about the topic. That wasn't my intention.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 2 points 1 hour ago

Yeah it's hard for me to do anything from my couch in Nova Scotia.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 11 points 14 hours ago (3 children)

Speaking just personally, I don't really care myself how Poly is represented. My polyqueue is a happy little dynamic and that's what matters. If media wants to say "haha look at us, we're poly" and it's just a bunch of group sex without the actual realization they are all individual relationships the same as mono ones, so be it.

Then again, poly in media is pretty under-represented. Lesbians in media are almost over-represented because of the ease of over sexualization of it. So I can totally understand your annoyance in the manufactured representation.

I suppose I came off a bit much in my first comment. I just know a couple lesbian friends who trib and they enjoy it.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 4 points 14 hours ago

And we have regulations on guns.

We have zero regulations on AI. We need some.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 6 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

We should have put a ban on X the minute that moron bought it.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 12 points 14 hours ago

Then get fired and take a stand. Don't just give up.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 22 points 15 hours ago

This is what the right wants. Open up the vacancies to they can be filled with people who will bow to Trump.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 9 points 15 hours ago* (last edited 15 hours ago) (7 children)

I am actually. I'm pan married to a trans person. Also Poly. I'm all over the queer spectrum lol.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 16 points 15 hours ago (9 children)

Weird to "um acktually" gay sex.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 16 points 5 days ago (1 children)

Someone needs to remind these "agents" that if they want to go home, maybe they should go home.

[–] PhoenixDog@piefed.ca 4 points 5 days ago

it will need to pass the House and be signed by Trump.

Well that's that I guess.

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