Pika

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[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 4 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (1 children)

Five.

I only block people if they actively harass me online. Otherwise, I'm fine with disagreement and do not tend to rage ban.

Still, if someone follows me around Lemmy to spite on everything, I'd rather have them blocked to keep this place nicer.

Oh, and there's Nicole in there, of course.

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 6 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Then it would make such membership meaningless and will only undermine collective action within NATO?

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 3 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Nice! Some minor design alterations would be great (sentence about news by the people for the people doesn't have to go back and forth in width; selected section should be highlighted instead of news being seemingly selected at all times), but overall, it's a great job!

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 2 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Who needs beef anyway

It's not essential, eat pork and poultry instead - it's cheaper and much better for the environment.

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 24 points 1 month ago

Man pages in Linux are commonly meant for people already familiar with command structures, specific terms etc.

They are often borderline useless for an inexperienced user.

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 1 points 1 month ago

To be fair, we only recently actually saw a black hole, and before that, it was just assumed to exist by its gravitational effects.

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 2 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Thanks!

Sad to see all this effort has to be put into making sanctions and then into evading them.

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (3 children)

Oh, many men are jealous when women they like hang out a lot with other women and enjoy their time. Modern culture made it look like women may form a special form of deep connection men can never reach, while simultaneously making men feel isolated overall, and some are driven quite crazy over it.

As such, when they get the attention they crave, they don't feel they can secure it. Thereby, mentioning other women and what they mean to you feels like a threat. This takes a while to unlearn, and is one kind of trauma many men get to experience.

I do not have many personal insights about how men want their friends/partners to be manly, but I may suggest it may come from the same point. Male friendships nowadays are fairly rare, and some folks really just want a bro to hang out with.

[–] Pika@rekabu.ru 18 points 1 month ago (10 children)

A bit of insights:

They get all weird because they see getting your attention as a sort of investment. They take time, effort, dedicate themselves to figuring out how to best build contact with you, and when it doesn't work out, it naturally leads to frustration. From there, they either close down (minimize losses), or get weird (frantically trying to make it work).

As per hugs and cuddles, masculine culture heavily disincentivizes tender emotions, and they can be seen as a reason for ridicule. Being burnt heavily on that, many men prefer to be very careful about communicating such needs.

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