SayJess

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[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 5 days ago

Damnit! Foiled once again!

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 5 days ago (2 children)

I wish d**** upon everyone involved in the process. Is that censored enough? It could mean so many 5 letter words that begin with ‘d’.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 5 days ago (1 children)

That’s what I fear most and have been saying loudly to anyone who will listen, but they are all indifferent.

If I lose access to my care, I don’t know what I will do.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 5 days ago

They abandoned us a while ago now.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 days ago* (last edited 5 days ago)

It is a terrible idea to seek medical advice from people on the internet. I could tell you anecdotes about my bipolar 2 disorder, but that does nothing to actually help you. Anyone who is giving you advice about it could be ADHD, or autism, or BPD is not helping you at all. You can read about the disorders/conditions from medical experts online, but again none of that is actually helpful. Instead you’ll end up diagnosing yourself with these things, and reinforce it with symptoms that you think you have.

The real advice here is to seek the help of a professional.

There is no stand-in for it.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 6 days ago

Did they somehow work in “transgender for everybody” into the assassinations yet? I haven’t been following too closely.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 17 points 6 days ago

A censure? We’d be lucky if he doesn’t get celebrated for it.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 1 week ago (2 children)

I agree. My anger with him is that he made no effort, except for a “what’s up” when he walked in. Immediately I felt a certain kind of way. He made no effort to even say “hello” or even introduce himself to me. What kind of man is that? I’m supposed to be so close to her, and surely she would have mentioned me to him. But it became clear right away that he had no intention of even knowing my fucking name. I shouldn’t have to be the one that comes up to him and push my way to tell him “I’m Jessica, it’s so nice to meet you”. He had no intention of meeting me, so I have no intention of ever meeting or seeing him again.

I know that this sounds one-sided or otherwise me being stand off-ish with him—and I am. She would have introduced me to him if I was important to her. But clearly I am not as important of a part of her life as I once thought.

Fuck this. What a way to meetup after being apart for more than a month. I’d figure she would want to sit somewhat near me, but she chose her seat that was far away from me. Again, this sounds like poor me, and maybe it is, but I’m really hurt rn.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 week ago

I’ve tried and failed multiple times to learn to at least understand what they say. I have really given it my best shot each time, but I fall off after a week or two. It really sucks.

They feel so comfortable around me, but know that I don’t understand what they say? I don’t get that. How do they, especially my best friend, not notice that I am not involved at all in what they say? This goes on for hours.

I suppose I need to realize that I will never be an actual part of the group, and that I need to move on.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

It would take nothing, because I would not accept them back as a partner. I’d rather not find out if “once a cheater, always a cheater” holds true or not.

You need to move on and work on yourself. He’s always going to doubt you to at least some degree. Don’t put him through that.

[–] SayJess@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 1 week ago (1 children)

What good would that actually do? Half of the nation is gleefully cheering this on.

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