Vibi

joined 1 year ago
[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 25 points 2 weeks ago

This is actually something I've learned more recently, especially with women, is pretty common. Reaching orgasm during sex often requires a lot of focus on feelings (physical, mental/emotional) and being present - ADHD brains can struggle staying present which then leads to less orgasm frequency during sex. I personally have had issues with this and have had partners with similar experiences - the best way I was able to help them was to be very vocal and engaging to keep them with me in the moment (talking in their ear, asking questions, etc) . One of my friends recently noticed that she's enjoying intimacy far more now that's she's being treated for her ADHD.

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 7 points 1 month ago

Yesss!!! So happy for you girl!! I tend to find being honest with your feelings is the healthiest for you and others 🩷 I hope you have many cute and fun dates!

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 13 points 1 month ago (4 children)

I'm of course not familiar with your communication dynamics with your friends, but your message feels like you are gently saying you're not interested. Saying you kinda like spending time with someone doesn't feel like your heart is into a 'more than friends' relationship. Also, saying you're spending time with someone because you don't want them to be abandoned is very different than honestly sharing that spending time with them makes you feel happy and you very much enjoy their company.

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 1 month ago

It depends if it's the uncensored version and what part of the world you're in. It hovers around TV-MA and 18+ based on the content laws of a country.

https://m.imdb.com/title/tt2230051/parentalguide/#certificates

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Highschool DxD is pretty amazing. Yes, it has copious amounts of nudity (mainly just breasts), but the plot, characters, and power system are actually so good! I generally only really like SoL and Romance anime, but sometimes the blend of power systems and SoL just balance out so well - A Certain Scientific Railgun is like that too!

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 5 months ago

I believe most apps can be used for free... to an extent. Just like mobile games they can very much be pay to win with many QoL features locked behind a subscription. I know you prefer web, so I'm mostly thinking of apps that also have a web interface. I'm also a woman and a similar age as you; I've given up on dating sites and apps to meet people. I do have friends that have had decent success with Bumble, Hinge (no web interface), and Boo. I've not looked into the full web-based ones in a long time, but even then I remember them being very limited without a subscription; I can't imagine that's changed. Best of luck girl 🩷 Online dating is a complete drain!

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 2 points 5 months ago

Both with friends and with random players. The map pinging system honestly works so well for the pace of the game! The goal to be as efficient and quick as possible generally doesn't leave much room for arguing or debates which makes things feel so not toxic. Someone usually just takes control of routing, puts a pin down, you or the other player can place a pin in the same location to second the vote, or you can place a pin where you think is best and the other players can second it or not. When I'm playing with friends they leave the routing up to me, but when we're playing with a matchmade player it's 50/50 if they'll be routing or I will. Sometimes it's chaos, but it's usually super smooth!

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 16 points 5 months ago (9 children)

It already supports single player 🩷 Enemy health, poise, and runes are adjusted to balance the lack of teammates. You can also buy a few Wending Graces that will allow you to self-revive since you won't have teammates to revive you. Some of the final day bosses can actually be easier to manage solo. I sooo recommend the game, and I also recommend giving multiplayer a chance when you're comfortable with the overall loop and navigating the map. While I do occasionally get a mess of a team, I would say the majority of my matchmade runs have been super smooth and fun!

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 6 months ago

I've had amazing success with the tucking panties from tcomfifits. I just can't do the tape method, and these always hold everything in place when I'm out! I'll wear them the entire day and rarely feel any discomfort. My only wish is that they had a few more styles, buuut I received an email from them recently that made it seem like they might be expanding their options!

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago) (1 children)

My friends despised my Elvish Piper deck since it could easily summon creatures like this 🀭 Especially when they were playing mono colored decks and I just pipered out Iona, Shield of Emeria.

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 6 months ago

When I was growing up I sooo had this! It was a universe that had every character I liked from books, shows, movies, comics, etc. It lasted for well over a decade, but it became super draining on my mind as I got older since I couldn't turn it off... And, most likely autism driven, I would often verbalize the sounds and actions playing in my mind. It took a lot of mental effort to finally end the story!

[–] Vibi@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 7 months ago

It will obviously vary, but I've been on HRT for a little over a year and started it late-ish (in my early 30s). I personally can say my face has femminized a fair amount - obviously my bone structure hasn't changed, but my eyes are slightly wider and softer, cheeks a bit fuller with fat sitting in a different place, skin GLOWS. There's obviously features that I would love to see change more/at all, but I'm much happier looking at myself in the mirror and in photos 🩷 I've also been getting laser hair removal for my facial hair along with other parts of my body. My friends and people I see occasionally for errands often have incredibly kind things to say about the changes they've been seeing over the year.

I did try one of those apps a few times and things didn't necessarily click for me since they kind of added makeup over my face. I personally want to be happy with my face without makeup, so I didn't feel they were showing a version of myself I wanted to see.

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