XiELEd

joined 2 years ago
 

Bong Go, perhaps you've forgotten that we're in the middle of a huge corruption scandal...

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago
[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago (2 children)

Somewhat same here, other than me occasionally browsing and commenting on c/books once in a blue moon

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Piefed seems interesting! Might register an account there :) Hurrah for the wonders of open source! I'm a bit worried about Ernest though. Didn't he have a bunch of health issues?

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago (7 children)

Speaking of Kbin, how is it rn? My first account was made on there after all

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago (1 children)

What war was that?

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Mundane things like helping someone carry their groceries from one vehicle to another when we're going down on the same stop. When we're boarded in the same vehicle they enthusiastically pay for my fare.

I tend to experience it more when I'm wearing business casual.

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 13 points 2 months ago (1 children)

Increased customizability from HTML and CSS support? Sign me up!

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

What a pretty DuBb IdOT!

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago) (2 children)

I got tangible perks for wearing certain clothes and helping people in them. It seems like when you dress a bit more formally, people are more likely to think you're going out of your way to help them, and you're more likely to get compensated. That mentality kinda sucks because if you squint a bit, there's a social class bias in play. And I remember a little factoid where someone found out you get scammed less at the dentist if you wear a suit vs if you wear something like a hoodie.

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

Both, but it's less about looking good or acceptable to others, it's more about displaying a specific image really.

 

I feel like it should be a part of internet etiquette to not start your forum posts with a general question only to clarify in the text post it's about something specific. Like at that point if you want to use a general question as the title you could start a comment thread with your specific situation. I know it would end up with people commenting outside your comment thread with your specific situation in mind but in a better world the OP's problems will get solved and other people with the same general question but specific situation could get help as well in another comment thread.

Can't justify the "hurr durr people are asking the same questions at the same time, just look at the previous posts" mentality when, yes, the post titles are similar, but it's clearly for another's specific situation. People would feel bad for "barging in" on those sort of posts.

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 5 points 6 months ago (1 children)

Started reading Entangled Life. Just a few pages in and I was dumbfounded by how almost ubiquitous and even supernatural fungi is, and how we barely even scratch the surface even with what we learn about them in school, and with our fascination with horror content about fungi like the cordyceps or something. Like for example, fungi served as roots before plants had them, they make microclimates, they have high metabolic ability, in which the book also described as something akin to alchemy... The ability to turn the raw environmental ingredients into a variety of substances, and structures with unique properties. And that's just in the few pages of the first chapter!

Also, when I started getting into reading this year I got interested in the classics, and had a good time with reading Don Quixote. Interestingly enough, the part with Marcella almost seemed like it criticized incel culture. Also to those who say that brainrot culture is a recent thing and that the past was better, read Don Quixote as it portrays a phenomenon of brainrot except with chivalric romances, which was the pop culture of the day. I also recently read Teleny: The Reverse of the Medal and Manon Lescaut. Damn Des Grieux, you were born for tragedy... Also, I've read the Picture of Dorian Gray, Carmilla, and Venus in Furs. You may see where I've been going if you're familiar with these titles, and it's all about love and passion and, well, a dash of homoerotism. Just in time for Pride Month. I honestly wanted to see how love and desire, such messy feelings, was felt by people who we were less likely to relate to, even idolized in our flawed perception of their orderliness, and whose lives were struck, smitten by it. The twitter post about Rennaissance teenagers comes to mind. What was their lives like, outside of cultural survivorship bias. I might even read On Love after reading Entangled Life if I have the time (unfortunately I have to deal with summer class, so I'm reading as much as I can before my time and energy gets sucked into it).

[–] XiELEd@lemmy.world 7 points 8 months ago (1 children)

I'm from the Philippines, a country in Southeast Asia.

 

Some stupid meme will appear in my head while I'm in public and a stupid grin will force itself into my face and obviously I don't want people to look at me and think I'm crazy, or worse ask what I'm laughing about and the only thing that was on my mind was "born to shit, forced to wipe".

 

What are some mundane goals you can recommend to someone trying to improve their fitness? For example, after watching a video while sitting down on the floor with my knees bent, I realised I could stand up without using my hands or resting my leg on the floor. It's indicative of core strength, right? I often do push-ups. So what else are some day-to-day actions that should become easier when improving fitness and what exercises can you do achieve them?

 

Not referring to lucid dreaming, which is simply controlling your dream. I'd like to know how to control what I dream the next night, regardless if it ends up as a lucid dream.

I remember reading a portion of a book then dreaming about it the day later. I am also aware of the "shifting" community (though they want to go to an entire alternate universe) in which they script throughout the day and sometimes get dreams related to it. Is there an actual practice for this sort of thing? Or is this something that happens only randomly?

 

I've heard of this concept multiple times throughout my time on the internet, but I never understood what causes a "server load". Now that I'm in one of the biggest instances on Lemmy, this is one of the significant issues that we face. So what is a "server load", why does it slow down websites instead of stopping them? Does the load on a server increase by the amount of information in it, the browsing of information, or both? Does upvoting and downvoting cause a load too? Does saving posts and comments to your profile also cause a server load?

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