I don’t mean to be glib
No worries. I appreciate the time you have taken to explain things. I have watched a few videos and Googled around, but unfortunately most of the results I find are either way too vague (Lemmy is part of the Fediverse. What is that? We don't know either!) or give the analogy of "It's like email" and then proceed to basically explain the API gateway thing I was assuming.
I will dig into this some more now that I know what I'm looking for; thank you. I'm hopeful there will be some more/clearer/accurate resources for the Reddit refugees before the current frenzy dies down to help build up the network.
How does vlemmy plan to support itself? I understand as Lemmy grows and vlemmy is subscribed to more and more communities, it will need to replicate those remote instances and that costs money. As members, what should we expect?