cavyherd

joined 6 years ago
[–] cavyherd@wandering.shop 1 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

@simonv @Kwakigra @LadyButterfly

Certainly is for me. I'm doing it right now 😭

I've heard stories of people who need or want to do a thing & just...get up & go do it...?

[–] cavyherd@wandering.shop 1 points 3 months ago

@clarkiestar @Kwakigra @LadyButterfly

Yes, that will be fascinating! I hope you report back.

[–] cavyherd@wandering.shop 1 points 3 months ago (2 children)

@clarkiestar @Kwakigra @LadyButterfly

I occasionally wonder how my life would be different if my mother had the resources & wisdom available that we do now. I'm 100% sure she meant well, but damn she left me with a lot of damage.

Props to you for doing the work!

[–] cavyherd@wandering.shop 1 points 3 months ago (4 children)

@clarkiestar @Kwakigra @LadyButterfly

My understanding is that ADHD is highly heritable, so if you have it, likely she does, too.

And of course, with "command resistance"(?) layered on top, being told to do/not do something just makes it even harder.

I'm β€’stillβ€’ recovering from the trip my mother laid on me about that, 40+ years later. Maybe Dani's image above will provide an entry point for a more productive conversation!

[–] cavyherd@wandering.shop 1 points 3 months ago (6 children)

@clarkiestar @Kwakigra @LadyButterfly

Right? Like effing daily. Hourly.

We've heard of the modern Prometheus?

This is the modern Sisyphus, except that the rock never reaches the top, & is forever rolling downhill....

[–] cavyherd@wandering.shop 4 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (10 children)

@Kwakigra @LadyButterfly

Dani Donovan has brilliantly illustrated executive dysfunction you describe. (As it happens, this describes...most of my waking life, actually.)

Two views of ADHD paralysis: at top "looks like" view shows a person lounging on a couch, happily scrolling on their phone, ignoring all the things they should be doing. Bottom "feels like" view shows a miserable person sitting on a couch, looking around, the background filled with judgemental internal conflict and dialog about all the stuff they should be doing.

[–] cavyherd@wandering.shop 2 points 1 year ago

@ValueSubtracted

Subsequent links I've tried seem to work okay. Maybe just something odd about that one post?

[–] cavyherd@wandering.shop 2 points 1 year ago (2 children)

@ValueSubtracted

What is this? Link goes to a logi-required site