compostgoblin

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[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 2 points 12 hours ago

I would love to! It’s just a pretty conservative workplace, so I’m very worried about the backlash that I’m expecting

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 1 points 12 hours ago

You totally should! I’m glad you have the courage to do it 😊

I’d love to, but I’m still closeted to almost everyone, except for my therapist, wife, and a few close friends. And I work with a bunch of conservative white men close to retirement. I have the absolute joy of hearing my boss listen to conservative talk radio almost every day. I’m legally protected from discrimination, but I think coming out and presenting femme at work would create a difficult environment that I’m not ready to deal with right now. I’ll probably change jobs, and let the new one know that I’m going to be transitioning, rather than try to make this one work, since I’m hoping to move away sometime in the next year anyway.

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egg_irl (infosec.pub)
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My guy clothes are feeling more and more like a costume. I wish my body were feminine enough, and my wardrobe of girl clothes large enough, that I could wear them all the time.

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 1 points 3 days ago

That’s awesome! Glad to hear it worked for you!

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 4 points 4 days ago

You should really think through the possibility that once you start estrogen you will not want to ever go off of it, even to regain fertility.

Yeah, that is a concern that I have… maybe it would be better to freeze sperm first, to be on the safe side.

I’ve browsed that document before, but I’ll read it through and check out that channel, thank you!

Everyone I’ve talked to has sung the praises of injections over any other method, so it’s definitely the one I’m leaning toward most

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 days ago

Thank you for such a detailed breakdown! I have my first GAC appointment with Planned Parenthood in a few weeks, so I’ll definitely talk with my doctor and see what they think. I’m more than a little nervous, but I’ve heard they’re really good at the one near me

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 3 points 4 days ago

Thank you! That’s really helpful

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 2 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Do you need a referral to a fertility clinic where you can freeze it?

 

Basically, how long would you have to be on estrogen before you could start getting some of the mental and emotional effects, but before you would start having any irreversible physical effects?

I am pretty interested in starting HRT, but I don’t necessarily want to go through the whole hassle of freezing sperm first if I end up not liking how HRT makes me feel. Nor do I want to wait a long time before starting HRT just to find out that it me feel like garbage. So I’m thinking about potentially taking it for like two or three months as a “trial run”?

Would that be enough time to get some clarity on whether or not I like how it works on me? And then I could stop it for long enough to freeze some sperm and then go back on, or just stop entirely, depending on if I like it or not.

Thanks friends 🙏💜

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 1 points 5 days ago

Let’s imagine this decision is upheld by the SC. Would state-level discrimination protections still apply, in states that have them?

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 29 points 6 days ago

Oh, absolutely. As my instructor put it, if you cause an arc flash and are killed instantly, you got off lucky. Because if you survive, your body will be severely damaged for the rest of your life.

Those trainings put the fear into you for good reason. I don’t fuck with high voltage at all, shit is way too scary for me.

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 5 points 6 days ago

Everyone should listen to the series that Molly Conger did on her podcast Weird Little Guys about the myth of genocide against white South Africans. It’s really well done, and I learned a lot that I never knew about apartheid.

Link to the first episode in the series

[–] compostgoblin@slrpnk.net 49 points 6 days ago (7 children)

And that arc flash’s temperature is several times hotter than the surface of the sun. It’s hot enough to instantly vaporize any surrounding metal, meaning that if you manage to survive being near an arc flash, there’s a chance that you’ll end up with tiny metal shards in your lungs, when they cool down after you breathe them in. Arc flashes are scary stuff.

 

The recommendations I’ve seen have varied wildly from 6 weeks to 6 months. The obvious answer is “once it’s healed enough”, but I am not sure how to judge that. I got my lobes pierced about a month ago, and I’m eager to upgrade from the simple silver studs! But I also don’t want to risk damaging the healing process and making the piercing angry.

Any advice is appreciated 😊

 

It seems like a simple and reliable product, but I know so many people who are put off of residential solar because so many of the contractors are sketchy. What is it about the industry that attracts so many of those folks?

 

How many vaults do you have, and what are they for?

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