humanobserver

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[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 11 minutes ago

That's fair. Apps like Whisper existed before and most slowly turned back into regular social feeds where identity and likes started to matter again.

The experiment here is to remove as much of that as possible and see what people actually say when identity disappears.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 23 minutes ago

Yes, a lot of them existed before.

Most of them failed because identity, feeds, and social dynamics slowly took over.

The idea here is to strip everything down so the confession stays the only thing that exists.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 39 minutes ago

IP addresses are only handled at the infrastructure level for basic abuse protection.

They are not connected to posts or identities and nothing is stored that could link a confession back to a person.

The whole design tries to separate the secret from the individual as much as possible.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 41 minutes ago

That is actually the idea behind it.

People can read or post a single anonymous thought without building any identity around it.

Still experimenting with the format to see if people actually use it.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 47 minutes ago (2 children)

Mostly the one-line thought.

Engagement tends to change how people write.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 50 minutes ago

Appreciate it.

I’m mostly curious what people actually say when identity disappears.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 51 minutes ago

Sometimes people just want to say something once without it becoming part of their identity.

That’s different from attention.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 55 minutes ago

That’s the tradeoff.

Therapists contextualize. Anonymous spaces reveal what people won’t contextualize anywhere else.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 58 minutes ago (6 children)

Honestly the format helps a lot.

One-line confessions with no profiles removes most incentives for bots or farming.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 1 points 1 hour ago

We normalized locking animals in apartments for our comfort.

And burning fuel to cross continents for a weekend.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 5 points 1 hour ago (8 children)

That’s the interesting part.

If people know their name and profile are attached, they filter themselves.

When identity disappears, you sometimes get chaos, but you also get honesty people never show anywhere else.

The question is whether the honesty outweighs the chaos.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 6 points 1 hour ago (10 children)

PostSecret is interesting because it's anonymous but still curated.

What I'm experimenting with is even simpler.

No profiles. No identity. Just very short one-line confessions people were never supposed to say out loud.

More like raw thoughts than stories.

 

Serious question.

Most people carry things they never tell anyone.

Not illegal things. Just thoughts that would damage relationships or reputations if they were said out loud.

Regret about past decisions. Things people hide from partners. Thoughts about friends or family they would never admit publicly.

Therapists exist for a reason, but most people never go to one.

So I was wondering something.

Would it actually be healthier if people had a place to post these thoughts completely anonymously?

No identity. No profile. Just the confession.

I’m building a small experiment called Backroom around this idea where people can post one-line anonymous secrets.

But I'm honestly curious if people would actually use something like that or if most secrets are better left unsaid.

 

Not talking about obvious things like crime.

I mean things that people just accept as part of life.

Things everyone does, but when you really think about it, it actually makes no sense.

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