I'm not personally going back to reddit. I've had problems with them for a while now so I'm glad they finally forced me off their platform.
I understand what you mean though. Lemmy definitely has a way to go to be more user friendly but I think we'll get there at this rate.
I'm still in the habbit of accidentally opening up Apollo and then seeing that nothing is available since it is all dark. Once Apollo is gone for good I'm deleting the app.