kofe

joined 2 years ago
[–] kofe@lemmy.world 2 points 6 days ago

Carrying a coconut?

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 6 points 6 days ago

My ex emailed me from a new account when he thought I'd blocked him everywhere else. I hadn't, but I did after that!

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 4 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, and part of that skill can be recognizing some meals arent worth it just to enjoy as a hobby. Like I dont fuck with recipes I cant make large batches for leftovers and freeze

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

I'm suddenly finding myself feeling very deprived of cute gifs and envious of this women. Though random monetary rewards would be nice too

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Without the smiley face I'm annoyed enough... with it just gives me an image I want to punch 🫠

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

I think that just takes a lot of skill to enunciate and hold pitch. It took me a while to hear past the "noise" when I was first introduced to heavier metal and acquire the ear for it. Theres definitely vocalists that don't do it well, but like architects' latest song "blackhole" has incredible range and is catchy as fuuuck

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

Fully automatic gay space luxury communism tyvm

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 1 points 4 weeks ago

Knowingly conditioning me without my understanding.

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (10 children)

Being caring also involves including their consent in the process. Idk, I'd be really upset by my partner knowingly doing this without talking to me about it. But then again I guess it could depend how they react if I found out before they just admit to it. Like if they got defensive and didn't understand why I'm upset. I'm not saying the whole thing is horrible, just hiding it.

Also depends on the person and their values, I guess. If you value someone doing that kind of emotional labor for you without you having to think about it. I'm very much used to doing the emotional labor in relationships.

Damn. I just realized maybe I'm displacing here though cuz I'm a bit jealous they’re using a method that works, whereas I'm single for a plethora of reasons.

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 8 points 1 month ago (12 children)

We can't get a dog's consent to engage in experiments. Continuing with this method after realizing and not talking with him about it would be intentionally ignoring consent.

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago

We used to sing "I been beat up and died, I been beeaat up" in my day

[–] kofe@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

I tell forced birthers even if I am murdering a conscious being, I'm justified in protecting myself from unnecessary, nonconsented harm

 

I was rushing to get these done between school and work, but I kept each of the 5 questions under 3 minutes if y'all are curious how I interpreted them! I heard lines might be longer than usual today, so make sure you've got water and some snacks. Hope to see you at the polls!

 

Hey y'all - I'm starting a video series breaking down our statewide ballot questions since I looked last week and had no idea about some of them. I'd really appreciate any support you can give, whether it's watching, commenting, or following my channel!

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fuck the manosphere (lemmy.world)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by kofe@lemmy.world to c/casualconversation@lemmy.world
 

I just want to vent a bit - I started seeing someone a few weeks ago. Old fling that I ran into through some friends that got rekindled, and I was excited that it seemed like more than just casual hookups this time. But there were some yellow flags I ignored that turned out to be red flags, and now I'm feeling frustrated and hurt.

Dude for real dropped the line that men are more "capable" and "logical" on me. That gender studies are "indoctrination." I told him we should probably stop seeing each other if that's really what he thinks. It wouldn't be logical for me to keep seeing someone that thinks lesser of me, now, would it?

I'm grateful to have some guy friends that I turned to after I left, cuz I wanted to go into "fuck all men" mode, but I know it's not true or helpful. Just like there are women out there that have internalized misogyny, there's feminist men, enbies, etc. We're all just people and we're not monoliths beholden to differences in biology. This is just sexist, manosphere bullshit in particular

Anyway. I'm still feeling angry and wanted to put it out there for some support and solidarity. Anyone have a recent win they'd like to share or something?

ETA: Thank you so much for the conversation y'all! I've been trying to keep up but I gotta get some sleep. I'll check in later but hope everyone has a good day. Keep up the empowerment! 💜

 

I know it's not the most engaging or thought provoking question, but I'm having a bad day and would really like to find a space to vent

 

I was noot prepared for this intensity

 

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