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Ah, right! Thank you. Great reference and now I want to rewatch.

The love toilet. Fantastic Phil Hartman skit. And I can’t recall who the other star was.

Yeah in my experience it is both with both. Tire them out by throwing them around and then snuggle up.

You gave her a great life. She knew she was safe and loved and part of a family right until the end.

This is the right take.

Just say “you should be funny more”

well, mother does say that I have the thicc-est ass.

Sometimes, I read stuff like this, and I feel seen. Sometimes, I read stuff like this, and I feel fucking spied on.

I am a people pleaser who is not immune to flattery. Tread carefully.

I'm not sure how long you've been here - not assuming how long you've been lurking, or that this is your first account, but I think it really is easier not to care here. All kidding aside, try it. You don't have this whole upvote/award dopamine cycle here, and in many cases, anyone can see the number of downvotes a comment has vs upvotes - something that reddit long ago "fuzzed" along with actual vote counts.

For instance, the comment I'm replying to has 3 upvotes (one of them mine), and 1 downvote as of right now. This ratio may stay the same, but I wouldn't be surprised if you got more downvotes, because your comment was a kind of dismissive reply to a comment that probably represents what a lot of folks who've been here a while feel, which also came from a user that is very active and generally well liked. I could not begin to tell you their upvote count (can't even see my own) as a proof of their popularity, so I just have to go by what I observe in my day to day, and this place is still small enough that you see familiar usernames in a variety of communities.

This is still kind of a small town, and you may come to see this bug as a feature in time. I did.

Isn't gold softer than iron with a lower melting point?

Many props to you. I feel like reddit doesn't count as social media, but I couldn't energetically defend that position. They are certainly engaging in social media tech bro behavior, so the distinction probably doesn't matter at this point, but it felt different than social media before it went to shit. Now, obviously when it "went to shit" is a point in time that is highly relative to the observer, but always sometime after the observer joined. That's just the nature of enshittification.