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[–] noreply@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 years ago

For me it's probably quite obvious with my username but I like sissy play and puppy play as my 2 major fetishes as well as femdom which is the basis of most fantasies of mine. Then throwing in whatever else I feel like that day into the mix like pegging, wax play, pretend impregnation, pretend neutering, medical scenes (I have a "femdom vet clinic" scenario I like to fantasize about a lot), etc.

[–] noreply@lemmynsfw.com 3 points 2 years ago (1 children)

I can think of 3 options here. One is a product called a "dance belt" designed for this exact purpose.

Second is a pair of what people call under shorts or compression shorts. Think tight Lycra that professional cyclists wear that holds everything in place right against your body.

Third option would be to tuck or tuck and tape (note there are health risks associated with tuck and tape especially if done for long periods of time tucking is easier but not as secure and you'll have to periodically readjust). Simple tuck could be just pulling back between your legs before you pull up your underwear. More complicated one involves this thing called gaff underwear.

[–] noreply@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 years ago* (last edited 2 years ago)

Lot of it centers on female domination, various aspects of kink and fetish (especially sissy play and puppy play as people can tell from my username), and being "forced" to serve the domme as a sex slave.

Luckily I had the chance to explore it (lightly) while I was in college with the girl I was dating and haven't looked back since.

[–] noreply@lemmynsfw.com 2 points 2 years ago

My read on this is that it was a quick and impersonal hookup with the only goal essentially being a quickie during lunch to get their rocks off.

I get how a lot of captions and fantasies out there are about being objectified, used, and "thrown away", but I'm of the belief that foreplay and teasing needed if you truly want to enjoy yourself.

Give it another try but instead of a quick blowjob during a lunch break where you immediately get on your knees, how about some clothed kissing and teasing before you ultimately get on your knees and service the cock.

[–] noreply@lemmynsfw.com 4 points 2 years ago

Agreed. I think organic growth is better than essentially being nothing better than an RSS feed that copies content from another site because otherwise what's the point when I might as well go to the original source in the first place. I want this community to be separate and grow into its niche on its own.