rami

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[–] rami@ani.social 1 points 1 month ago

this is a pretty decent take. very refreshing after watching the other conversation devolve into a slapfight.

[–] rami@ani.social 0 points 1 month ago

or, you know, isn't a cis dude and wants some representation that isn't disgustingly fetishized.

[–] rami@ani.social 20 points 1 month ago

you're gunna charge for it anyway, parasite. might as well help you get a actual day's work in once in a while.

[–] rami@ani.social 2 points 2 months ago

yes. that also usually implies that said person is transitioning socially (name/pronouns/gender marker/presentation) and or medically (hormones).

one can certainly be a nonbinary amab and not do those things, but I wouldn't consider them transfem, personally.

[–] rami@ani.social 13 points 2 months ago

I appreciate you taking the time to learn ❤️

[–] rami@ani.social 7 points 2 months ago (2 children)

direction of transition is the easiest way to think about it imo. hrt femboys, binary trans women, nonbinary/GNC trans women would then all fall under the umbrella of "transfem"

[–] rami@ani.social 1 points 2 months ago (1 children)

I relate to this so much. not being able to operate in this bullshit system despite your best efforts. I'm still struggling just to complete the paperwork. it really seems like if you have an invisible disability it's impossible to get help sometimes.

the worst part for me was finding a job I actually really enjoyed and was good at only to watch it slowly slip away under the crushing pressure of constantly having to perform and appear normal.

second to last paragraph sound exactly like my experience. I'm so done with it all. thank you for taking the time to write all this, it's really validating to see someone else struggling with the same things.

[–] rami@ani.social 2 points 2 months ago (1 children)

you're*

as in "you're a prick"

[–] rami@ani.social 7 points 3 months ago

that is so much worse 😂

[–] rami@ani.social 1 points 4 months ago

the second one you describe are more delusions of hallucinations. intrusive thoughts are fairly harmless and pretty much every experiences them.

[–] rami@ani.social 1 points 4 months ago

same. hurts every time I rewatch it.

[–] rami@ani.social 6 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago) (10 children)

from my experience with some libertarian 2a people I'd agree with this. I was surprised how indifferent (good) they were about minorities and trans people considering how they vote. honestly having a pro-drug, pro-gun* platform would win a huge chunk of them. and both of those would also be good for oppressed minorities (imo).

actually sitting here thinking about it do we have any figures on how much tax money gets pumped into prison systems that rely on drug enforcement to fill? not to mention the military industrial complex. cuz I know leftists like to riff on libertarians about "I don't understand how taxes work" but there's a lot of tax money going to things I don't agree with either.

*more like "sex positive" in the sense of education and safety and not shaming people who partake. not whatever the NRA is doing.

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