retractedfangs

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[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 22 points 6 days ago

posts have to have 100+ upvotes on reddit - guaranteed high quality,

ummm no that's not how it works haha

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 7 points 3 weeks ago

Same. I had my new Bsky account suspended for using a VPN during the registration. I sent an email to their tech support explaining the situation. No response, account was never recovered.

I guess I'm not welcome on their platform lol.

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 10 points 3 weeks ago

I'd say so, yeah. Either implement algorithms and deal with the consequences or design something that would make discovery of new content as easy as seeing it appear in your algorithmic feed, while avoiding all the problems that personalization brings.

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 93 points 4 weeks ago (37 children)

Does Fediverse even have what your friends want from a social media? Even the answer is yes, share that content with them and hope they will be intrigued. Unfortunately, the most likely is no in this case. Fediverse is only good for like five topics and everything else is "too niche".

It would change if we had more people on here but the problem is, Fediverse just isn't appealing to most people. They don't care about decentralization and open-source. What they do care about though is algorithms and low barrier to entry - and neither need is fulfilled by the Fedi.

We are truly the Linux of social media haha.

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 4 points 1 month ago

I won’t take credit for this idea. It was posted on r/worldbuilding but was nuked by the mods for “asking for content”, as usual only after lots of interesting discussion.

OP: "I consent"

Other worldbuilders: "I consent"

The mod: "I don't"


My first thought is that such a scenario would lead to a rise of fascist governments as nations urge to prepare to fight back. These fascists invade their neighbors in hope that they could gather an equal army... somehow.

When 6 months pass and no aliens show up, the fascists whose entire existence was justified by this imminent threat start spreading disinformation about the aliens' message to ensure that their populace still believe in the promised invasion.

Eventually, the fascists exhaust their reserves (and their lies) and the War ends. The broken moon is forever associated with fascism and a conspiracy theory spreads that claims that the fascists themselves crippled our moon.

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

I wish my experience with Masto&Co could be as peaceful. Back when I joined it there was a devastating drama between multiple trans instances that led to a mass defederation from one particular instance. One of my mutuals was on it, they didn't know about the drama and I was too busy with IRL stuff to warn them about incoming defederation. Being cut-off like this wasn't pleasant at all.

From my perspective, there’s way less yelling at each other amongst the Germans than in the broad English speaking Threadiverse.

That's interesting. My only experiences are with English internet as well as my native language with the latter being so awful that I learned English just to escape that circus. I suppose English internet is in hell right now because of the US primarily. Maybe I should consider learning a new language :D

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago (2 children)

I never thought about Lemmy's communities as one of the reasons for the combative attitude that's so common here. Although, I disagree that Mastodon and Reddit are less affected by it: Reddit definitely had serious fights between subreddits and they stopped being so prominent primarily because of Reddit's heavy-handed moderation. Mastodon, on the other hand, is defined by defederations (which are worse than on Lemmy) and since visibility depends almost entirely on the amount of followers (tags are rather unpopular on Masto), groups form naturally around popular users whose boosts are the main way to be seen.

I can totally confirm that Lemmy users are susceptible to tribalism - just for the amount of times I heard that someone being called a fascist/tankie/lib because they are from a certain Lemmy instance. And I know I think this way too sometimes.

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 3 points 1 month ago (4 children)

Lemmy in comparison to all other online social media including the rest of Fediverse. I mean, the times are tough and people are angry for a reason, there's rage and despair everywhere but no other place is so entrenched in negativity as Lemmy.

Big socials also have lots of negativity but they are BIG: you can find so much stuff that you can completely ignore what is probably 50+% of the content on the platform.

Small socials, on the other hand, manage it surprisingly well. I don't know why Lemmy can't manage the negativity under control, to be honest. No other small social media I visit has a problem with not drowning in doom. My one theory is that the other small socials have a focus: creativity, technology, some kind of media, etc. Maybe having a common interest in such a tight knit community is a remedy to doomscrolling?

It would also explain why pre-APIcalypse Lemmy wasn't nearly as toxic - the flagship instance was focused on technology.

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 3 points 1 month ago (6 children)

For Threadiverse specifically, I blame the laser focus on negativity on here. So often do I come across a comment that makes me think "holy shit, this guy really shouldn't doomscroll right now". It doesn't need to be a political sub either, I find them everywhere. Sometimes I feel like the whole platform was tailor made for doomscrolling. It's wild, I don't see it anywhere else where I've been.

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 1 points 1 month ago

True I just wanted to mention these fascinating creatures because they are the closest we have to revival from death.

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

you can just quietly leave?

And who said I want to leave huh?

[–] retractedfangs@mander.xyz 3 points 1 month ago

I do prefer Lemmy to commercial socials even if I don't vibe with most people on here.

 

On big commercial social media, people think the websites they are on are a big deal: opinions you share there, people you interact with, engagement you receive. It must matter SO MUCH to them - especially to influencers who earn some money from it.

Well, commercial Web is an obvious fodder to the Fedi but what about other alternative social spaces? These small, timy websites with barely any activity on them... there's no place for such delusions. They aren't changing the world and they know it.

Fediverse, in comparison... oof. You see, it is the Future. If We succeed, the Evil will be defeated. The whole world depends on the few people who ended up on here. It is a quiet place now but it will inevitably become the most popular thing. The Year of ~~Linux~~ Fediverse is any day now!

This feel of self-importance and superiority leads to the level of drama almost on-par with the corporate socials which is highly unusual in such small online spaces, at least in my experience.

 

cross-posted from: https://mander.xyz/post/53470043

Agdayne sure knows how to dress in his Crypt!

Set to the left: hunter's hat + wanderer coat + black leather gloves and boots + claymore + light crossbow

Set to the right: thief mask + Agdayne's black robe and kilt + black leather boots + uchigatana + Avelyn

 

Agdayne sure knows how to dress in his Crypt!

Set to the left: hunter's hat + wanderer coat + black leather gloves and boots + claymore + light crossbow

Set to the right: thief mask + Agdayne's black robe and kilt + black leather boots + uchigatana + Avelyn

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