I don't really get this response. I literally said
I don't think federating with them and at least trying was the wrong move
and then you say
You're arguing against a point that I didn't make ... my point was that it was a waste of time to try
Maybe we've just a crossed wire in communication here, but I very much think it was worth trying to get on with the admins, that it paid off in our favour and would have either way.
Yep, fair enough, sorry for not being clear. We do disagree somewhat on that point, but otherwise aye