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We talked stuff that works you up, how about things that you do to calm down? What techniques, activities, mantras, stims, etc. do you do to keep yourself comfortable and safe? Feel free to share what you'd like - and something kinda cool is that you might end up helping someone else down the line.

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[–] cashmaggot@piefed.social 1 points 1 year ago (1 children)

I'd like to think we might all have certain pieces of the puzzle but we might not have the big picture view. Likewise I think it's incredibly healthy to accept things as what they are, but to be honest (and this is a hot take here) I think a lot of westerners overly-idealize Buddhist philosophy. But as a mixed kid, eh! I like it, but I don't sit in any one camp. People talk about how humble monks are only eating what they are offered. But honestly, it's a social expectation. In a different space, monks would not thrive because it might not be something so readily being offered and in turn they would experience a level of stressors that push their very beliefs to their core. That's why there's a lot of jokes about things like meditating in isolation on anger only to be annoyed when those practices actually get pushed. In theory all individuals regardless of background, personality, stressors - etc should be able to reach enlightenment. But I think in actuality, it takes a certain alignment of the stars and it's fool-hearty to think otherwise. But that's just me, and what do I know? I'm a messy human. (I always anecdotally remember that one of the most materialistic people I've met in my life was a former Buddhist monk =P!)

I will say though, that in my travels the happiest people I've ever met in my life were a SE Asian Islamic/Buddhist combo. They didn't have much, but they had each other. And to be honest, it really taught me how to mind my ps & qs when it comes to want vs need and what one truly needs to be happy.

But at the end of the day, it's shown over and over again that meditation in some form helps people much like exercise and doing it in any capacity is worthwhile =)!