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[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 21 points 3 months ago (17 children)

Well guys, I finally did it. I went and bought nicotine patches.

spoilerReasons for quitting:

*I want to start jogging - can't do that on the gaspers.

*We're going to Japan this year - can't do that on the gaspers.

*I know once I've quitting my man will follow - I want to be the good influencer for once instead of the other way around.

*I love a competition - He is now in a competition he doesn't know about yet.

All very valid reasons.

Plan of attack:

*This weekend will be my last hurrah. I may drunk post tomorrow. Probably. Most likely.

  • Starting Monday I will be patching up.

*I will do my best to not be a cunt through this process. No guarantees.

I'm gonna cry but I'm good. I'm gonna be such a cunt.

Thank you for reading. ❀️

[–] Bottom_racer@aussie.zone 11 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I’m gonna be such a cunt

All of us here will still love you :)

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 3 months ago

😭 ❀️

[–] Duenan@aussie.zone 10 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You can do this Ceo. Even if you don't get it right the first time just try again.

I have faith in you!

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 4 points 3 months ago

Thanks mate ❀️

[–] Force_majeure123@aussie.zone 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I haven't smoked regularly for maybe 4 years now, I successfully quit using lozenges. Downside is, I'm now hopelessly addicted to the lozenges. Oh well, less weevils and all that

[–] SpinMeAround@aussie.zone 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You absolutely GO GIRL, I love this for you!! Tis the season for change indeed. Cry and be a cunt all you need in here, you've got our full support in this endeavour! Love that you've got solid reasoning and goals behind you.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 6 points 3 months ago

Thanks ❀️

Fucking onions.

[–] StudChud@aussie.zone 7 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

You can do it! I believe in you!!!

What others have said about patches is good advice!

Also, find something to do with your hands! Lozenges should help with the 'mouth feel' but you may need to do something with your hands as well when you have an urge - it's a mental thing. You might get all fidgety, so maybe take up drawing/doodling or knitting, reading may help, or a free mobile game or something!

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[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 3 months ago

Since I've taken off my wedding ring I started fidgeting with a pen (click click click) but I should find the fidget cube that's somewhere in this house. It has all these different fidget fuckers on it. If I can't find it I'll buy another one because I'm a master fidgeter.

[–] Gibsonhasafluffybutt@aussie.zone 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Fuck yeah well done!!!

It takes a lot of courage to face it head on.

You can do it!!!

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 3 months ago

YES I CAN!!! πŸ’ͺ

[–] calhoon2005@aussie.zone 7 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Right on. Sincerely hope you manage to quit, but keep in mind, those fuckers are real addictive and really hard to quit so don't beat yourself up too much of it doesn't go as straight forward as you hope. I smoked heavily for 14 years. Took me about 5 tries to be successful in quitting. 14 years ago in February just gone... Having said that, I hope your smash it. Look into Parkrun for jogging. It's the bomb.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 3 months ago

I've been smoking now for nearly 30 years apart from the one year I had my daughter, which was easy to give up, so I know it's gonna be the second most toughest thing I've had to do in my life.

I'm a realist. I'm expecting failure at first but I've got tenacity on my side. πŸ’ͺ

[–] dumblederp@aussie.zone 6 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

You can cut the strong patches up to make weaker ones, no need to pay the same price for a seven pack of half strength ones.

I've got a bit of hair pretty much everywhere, I'd put some sports tape over the patch to hold it on.

Sticking stuff to your body, tape or patches, after a while the sticking gum stuff will cause a bit of irritation. After removal, cleaning the site with alcohol swabs or an essential oil on a cotton bud will remove the leftover gum in a way that soap won't.

My mate got onto the official nic vapes via a prescription he got online.

Patches gave me weird sleep, I took them off in the evening.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

This is all very useful information. Thank you. Luckily I'm like a hairless cat thanks to genetics.

I don't want to go down the vape route but if in the future I have to I will.

I'm expecting failure but I know me well enough to know if I fall I will pick myself up and keep going and each time it will get easier and easier. I just have to start.

[–] dumblederp@aussie.zone 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

It took me a hundred goes to quit. Failure isn't having a ciggie. Failure is giving up on quitting. Today was a good day and I didn't cave. Today was a bad day and I didn't cave. got me through some struggles.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 3 months ago

I love this thought!

[–] Thornburywitch@aussie.zone 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

I found having an emergency spray thingie in my handbag was very helpful when I was starting on patches. Cos patches take time to work and the spray is immediate and tides you over until the patches kick in. I didn't like using the gum.
I also found that the patches sometimes left a sore red mark on my skin when removed. Usually when that bit of me got overheated or sweaty. Chemist also warned me NOT to put the patch anywhere near where I was going to spray perfume or deodorant - apparently these kick the patch glue into overdrive and can burn the skin chemically. I usually ended up putting the patch on my upper leg. Hope this helps a bit.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 4 points 3 months ago

I've tried the gum once before and didn't like it because I don't chew gum anyway. I've tried the spray and it wasn't bad but this time I've gone with the lozenges. I don't mind sucking on a lolly.

I was thinking about sticking the patch on my leg so this does help. Thank you ❀️

[–] Eagle@aussie.zone 6 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You got this. I'm 12 years free next month. I used patches too, and the man followed me 6 months later but he too champix. Its tough, and I used the quit app at the time, it had games and info which helped. Treating each craving as it comes and then celebrating that success later worked for me. Because they're just cravings, and life has thrown worse shit that I've survived, you know?! Anyway, best wishes on your journey, and find something for your hands!

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 4 points 3 months ago

Thank you ❀️

[–] melbaboutown@aussie.zone 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

Good luck! I was a real see you next Tuesday and had to taper very slowly.

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 5 points 3 months ago (1 children)

You! No way!

If I start calling youse bitches it's a term of endearment and nothing more.

[–] SituationCake@aussie.zone 4 points 3 months ago

You’re tough and determined. You will win! Congrats on the decision, we are here for any venting when the see you next tuesdays hit!

[–] useless_modern_god@aussie.zone 4 points 3 months ago (1 children)
[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 2 points 3 months ago
[–] Taleya@aussie.zone 2 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (1 children)

Tips:

Nicotinell over nicorette, fuckton cheaper.
If you can't control dreamstates then take off before sleeping.
Sour gummy worms

[–] CEOofmyhouse56@aussie.zone 2 points 3 months ago

Thank you. ❀️