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I feel like this is one of those conversations you make up in your head and it's kinda cringe to write it down.
From my experience men often underestimate how often women face weirdos. While the whole conversation might happen only in authors head the initial comment of the guy is quite a regular thing. It is a form of bullying. The rest of the conversation might happen in the authors head only, but it's sad that women have to face such behavior in the first place IMO. If you don't think such conversation happens at all, you might get enlightened by the everyday sexism project, the related (audio)book, or just ask a friendly woman around you if they ever faced it. https://everydaysexism.com/
Actually it is a regular thing among the asshole "manosphere" crowd (i.e. the pathetic fucking losersphere).
You've had this conversation?
No but I've seen it. I'm not a manosphere wacko
I brought up an example of a specific sexist and controlling behavior I observed (guys holding their wives or girlfriends by the neck while walking across the street, like they were steering a chicken) in a meetup group and all the men around me said they had never seen it. The two women said they both had experienced it.
Repeat this a thousand and one times with other behavior I and presumably you, as men, will never have to experience but are just as real.
Aka, high value men
These programming socks have no gender
There is a whole generation of men being indoctrinated right now that believe women shouldn't have any rights. Most feminist women on Instagram that I have seen have gotten a multitude of rape and murder threats.
It is nice for you if you never noticed the rampant sexism and general hatefulness that people on the internet show against any minorities they find but I've seen several instances of similar exchanges as shown in this comic just in the last two weeks.
Sure, misogyny exists. I'm talking about somebody referring to themselves as "high value" and calling the person they're talking to a "loud-mouthed, opinionated wench". It's just really heavy-handed dialogue.
Those people unironically say stuff like "I wouldn't even rape you" and call women that don't look like they are about to die of anorexia fat. They exist in spades, Lemmy just isn't the right kind of social media for those people to come out with such stuff (except for maybe this post).
No, but I thought about having it, so basically the same thing, eh?
I can see this as a twitter exchange for sure but irl it seems very shower thoughtesque. It could be that a very online person framed it as an irl thing and that what's jarring.
Then again I am not a woman and cannot speak to that experience.
Why is a typically online interaction being shown as if in person so jarring? If anything, the interaction happening online where they would be unlikely to date anyways makes it even weirder when someone says it.
That is true it is weird af online too. Such a weird thing the way online and in person discourse is so divergent.
Just look at this thread. People are out in force acting superior to her and putting her down for having an only fans. Theyre providing unsolicited feedback, acting "high valued" without even realize theyre doing it. This comic is showing how she sees the unsolicited feedback from these people on the internet, and calls it out as it is, inconsequential to her life. And what do those very same people do? Get even more upset.
Frankly, i knew nothing about this lady before this thread happened. It's been a wild ride for me to follow
I didn't even realize she did nudes in her patreon until someone mentioned it. He of course totally hates it but periodically checks on it (to see if its still there and shes still doing it) using a website that skips the paywall.
Big shower-arguement energy for sure.
When you consider the sourceβ¦.