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[โ€“] Rhoeri@lemmy.world 15 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago) (1 children)

Have a good read, itโ€™s interesting if you like manufactured drama for the sake of publicity.

[โ€“] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 9 points 11 months ago (2 children)

Huh, that comic and the responses makes me realize how much people can't notice their own blind spots, including within the comic itself.

Like in this section with people saying it's exaggerated or nobody actually talks like that (because they don't ever perceive it in real life and it seems to ridiculous to be real), and the comic referenced in your link where she says if men were responded to that way, because she apparently can't see that it is how men are responded to for many of those things, because she's so used to seeing women as the victims of that stuff perpetrated by mostly men (which is reasonable! What situations would she see the opposite?). What's telling, though, is the way one side pegs her as a misandrist for it and shit on her work and herself for it, and the other side pegs those for being misogynist for taking issue with her (though, in fairness, some are and will hate on anything by a woman discussing problems for women).

Basically, I feel like this is two groups yelling past each other and being upset about the same issue: gender-based mistreatment. But another key thing is... well, the guys who happen across her comics should recognize that it's a comic equivalent of TwoXChromosomes from Reddit: it's by a woman, largely for women, and you should either skip it or read it for a glimpse of a perception you normally don't experience, not something to argue over. And the women, just like with 2X, should take this stuff with a grain of salt (especially when someone presumes to know what men's experiences are). Stuff is exaggerated to pinpoint an issue, but you shouldn't let it poison your view of the world (or men).

Basically, I feel like there's value in comics like PizzaCake's, but the heavy commenting should be expected, not hated on. The most value people can get from it would be hearing other perspectives without insulting them for having a different one than your own. Except the actual misogynists (and misandists), they can fuck off, but I think it's worth giving the benefit of the doubt to start.

[โ€“] admin@lemmy.today 7 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I saw that thread and honestly wanted to comment something like this, but I thought it would be better to let it go unsaid.

And she refused to even acknowledge that she might suffer from the same blind spot she is accusing others of.

Edit: the archive link : https://archive.is/xfVPD

[โ€“] barsoap@lemm.ee 5 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

well, the guys who happen across her comics should recognize that itโ€™s a comic equivalent of TwoXChromosomes from Reddit: itโ€™s by a woman, largely for women, and you should either skip it or read it for a glimpse of a perception you normally donโ€™t experience, not something to argue over.

So, to cite the devil, as men should not interject in women's spaces when misandrist tropes are being normalised there, so women should not interject in men's spaces when men are normalising misogyny.

I don't know about you but I don't think that's the solution to society's issues. In fact, we should have a standard of both sides policing their own spaces against harmful tropes.