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There's nowhere that I wouldn't like to see for myself at least once. So I'll go with somewhere that I've been already and wouldn't miss if I never went again.
Paris. It's literally just a big dirty city with graffiti and people peeing in alleyways like any other city, plus a few famous landmarks that you only need to see once, in areas where everything costs twice as much. Big whoop.
On a side note: I didn't encounter the stereotype of rude French people anywhere in France. If you're friendly, don't treat waiters and stuff like servants and don't expect people to fall over their feet for you, I found them to be just like any other human beings anywhere else. Some people are friendly, some people are just doing their jobs and getting through their days.
The closest I came to a 'rude' French person was on my way out of the country, going through all the hoops in the airport. This one women at the counter's face almost seemed to light up when she saw and was so friendly and warm. Until I spoke English and then her face just dropped and she barely looked at me or said a word the rest of the time.
I feel the same about Paris, there's nothing romantic or magical about it. It had easily the worst air pollution I've ever seen in Europe (but I understand that's improved a lot in the last decade), it's overcrowded and smells like sewage everywhere. Not a place I'd ever care to visit again. That said I use a number of French services and I really like a lot of their cultural exports, and I'd love to explore other areas of France.
When I was there, apart from trips into Paris, I was staying in a little village about half an hour from Paris called Nozay. Now that was something that you don't just get back home like a big city. Cobbled streets in certain parts, half the buildings are probably as old or older than my country, there's the little town square where everything is from the mayor's office to the bakery to the pub and tobacconist lol. I'd love to visit the French countryside and little villages and stuff again a lot more than I'd like to see a big city again.