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What was it about? Did you admit you were wrong or adamantly insist on your point? How did your interlocutor react? How would you like someone to react if you concede errors?

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[โ€“] hperrin@lemmy.ca 74 points 4 days ago (1 children)

Yeah, I think everyone has. Unless they are astoundingly arrogant.

[โ€“] Cocodapuf@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

If people were never extraordinarily wrong about things, we'd have nothing to argue about on the Internet. What a blessing!

I guess the question is how often do you realize that you're actually on the wrong side of that argument, it definitely happens. And then what do you do next? Dig your heels in, double down and keep arguing? Or acknowledge the realization, make a concession or even apology?

Evidently, it can be hard to be a decent person (hard for all of us), when anonymity means there are no personal consequences to being a dick.