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-Long lists of requirements in a partner.
-Expecting “entertainment” or for matches to have to prove themselves in some way.
-The majority of their profile is talking about things they hate.
-“Traditional gender roles” - nothing against this if it’s how both partners are happy, but it almost always translates to massive entitlement and avoidance of responsibilities.
I just thought of this: Whose traditions? 🤣
Im Jewish and while we do have "standard" traditional gender roles, we have:
In Judaism all of those are correct and traditional. However, in Judaism none of them are enforced by the torah (its more descriptive rather than prescriptive) so you can just ignore them and still consider yourself traditional.
I should have thought of that. "A lot of thou shalt not this, thou shalt not that" like an income tax return is definitely red flag territory.