People are pretty great on average, taking care of each other while trying to get by. Save your strength and spare the hate when ya can. Thats the post.
this post was submitted on 30 Aug 2025
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I have to hate myself to become better. That's the only way
It won't work, and will backfire and cause you to become hateful.
Hope things go well.
I'm 32yo and I'm waay out of this phase. I love people, I don't judge them for their life choices.
It will backfire on my mental health and overall stability, but it's the only mode I can improve that I have discovered so far
Or, you could love yourself to become better. Reach towards the person who's growing, and let the rest fall away.
No, therapy didn't work