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[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 26 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago) (2 children)

AFAB, nonbinary person who identities as non-binary because they are fluid. I.e. sometimes a woman, sometimes another gender. Dating a woman.

I guess if we're getting technical, they're only a lesbian sometimes. But we don't have a term for truly NB dating a woman. And they don't self identify as male so they're not hetero. So lesbian it is.

See? Easy peasy.

But this is why I stopped trying to make logical sense of it. I don't need to understand that level of detail about a stranger, and I dont care who they're fuckin unless it's me.

[–] I_Fart_Glitter@lemmy.world 19 points 1 month ago (1 children)

It's best to identify as "lesbian" if it's close to your situation, because there are a lot more brunches that way.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago (1 children)

wait, the lesbians get more brunches than us bis? when did this happen

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (1 children)
[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago (3 children)

i just need to know if i need to pick up some gender fluid to get more brunch

[–] Ziglin@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

I'm right here. (Bring a straw please)

[–] pyre@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago (1 children)

dunno but if you need any you can ask any dude for that, most of them would be very open to it.

[–] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 1 points 1 month ago

straight from the pineal gland? yessssss

[–] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 2 points 1 month ago

Gender fluid was just mimosa. Going to brunch is how you get more.

[–] TheDoozer@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago (1 children)

In a practical sense, identifying as lesbian makes it clear who they are interested in. Who they are should already be understood.

Honestly, non-binary hetero would be considerably more confusing. I at least know with a non-binary lesbian that they like women.

Non binary asexual would clear everything up for the "Don't give a fuck" crowd