Witches VS Patriarchy

I don't personally approve of the whataboutism of the top-level comment, but I do disagree that death statistics are a reason to point and say "that hatred is okay".

If someone wants to say "I hate the fucked up system and all the people who support it", then I am right there with them as a straight white man. Shit's fucked, and is rapidly being further fucked, with malice aforethought, by most governments on the planet, and such policies are being met with thunderous applause. There are many people worthy of hatred. To make a blanket statement like "I hate men" when you mean something else is just a sign that you aren't being considerate of the actual words you say, and is totally unproductive as a starting point, serving only to alienate. Even as a staunch ally of any effort to eradicate patriarchal systems, I will not show up to support a cause that starts with "fuck you in particular, (by the way, not you, you're one of the good ones)". That othering inherent in the choice of phrase is chosen. Maybe it does just come from a place of trauma, but it is an inherently alienating statement to make, and expecting tolerance from the people you alienate with it, so that you can qualify your lack of consideration with nuance, and then complaining when people refuse to engage with what appears, on its face, to be a blanket statement of hatred, is wholly counterproductive to any attempt to communicate with allies.