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Maybe.
Intimacy is quite emotionally connected for me, and I'd prefer a partner who feels similarly about it. It seems unlikely that someone would've worked in the industry if they viewed it that way - similarly to having a very casual view of sex in general.
Whilst I won't rule it out entirely, it'd make me hesitant. The person would have to be quite compatible aside from that, so I'd need to get to know them better before giving dating a try.
same, it's a big obstacle but like if we're otherwise a perfect match then it'd be fine if they get a new job and we never talk about it.