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Your read of the situation is pretty tilted, ngl.
He said he's not paying for her, the implication is they are going out to eat for a date. Not chilling at home or somewhere in private. Bestie can chill somewhere else other than at the table the date is happening at, if homegirl feels threatened or scared of the guy she can signal for bestie.
I can totally understand wanting a trusted friend around to ensure a date goes fine, hell ive done it several times for girls and guys I'm friends with. But that safety net can stay in the background and doesn't need to be at the table interfering with the date. But never once did I expect the friend I was wingmanning for to buy me food or drink while I hovered in the background. All homegirl had to say is bestie is paying their own way or homegirl was gonna give her some money.
She's covering her butt, understandably, by bringing a friend, and he's covering his by stating he's not paying for the third wheel.
Mh is he not showing he's annoyed by her friend tagging along? And why bringing money up?
I mean, if it were happening to me, where I live, I wouldn't even think she was going to expect me to pay not even for herself, and if she ends up expecting or pressuring me, I just know she's not the one. What's there to be scared of? Worst case scenario I just leave my part on the table and go away
I know of memes about women going to first fates just to have nights out without paying, but it's very far from what I see happening where I live, and I suspect it's just manophase echo chamberism. Because, again, one can just put their part on the table and leave, and perhaps date within one's social circle so to avoid this kind of social distortion