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[Jenny Gorelick] Co-Stars (infosec.pub)

submitted 1 day ago by Stamets@lemmy.dbzer0.com to c/funny@sh.itjust.works

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[–] shawn1122@sh.itjust.works 2 points 1 day ago

This is a tough one without further context. Were you making diligent efforts to reciprocate pleasure and they gave even though you felt you were making inroads? Did you make it clear that you wanted to get them off without the vibrator and they were open to that but it wasn't working?

I think the way you felt is fair. I think attentive partners want to reciprocate pleasure and ideally do it with just their presence if the situation allows. I wonder how they would have responded if you said you wanted to try without it or if they felt there would be deeper meaning (rather than pure hedonism) to not using the vibrator.