Transfem
A community for transfeminine people and experiences.
This is a supportive community for all transfeminine or questioning people. Anyone is welcome to participate in this community but disrupting the safety of this space for trans feminine people is unacceptable and will result in moderator action.
Debate surrounding transgender rights or acceptance will result in an immediate ban.
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This community is supportive of DIY HRT. Unsolicited medical advice or caution being given to people on DIY will result in moderator action.
Posters may express that they are looking for responses and support from groups with certain experiences (eg. trans people, trans people with supportive parents, trans parents.). Please respect those requests and be mindful that your experience may differ from others here.
Some helpful links:
- The Gender Dysphoria Bible // In depth explanation of the different types of gender dysphoria.
- Trans Voice Help // A community here on blahaj.zone for voice training.
- LGBTQ+ Healthcare Directory // A directory of LGBTQ+ accepting Healthcare providers.
- Trans Resistance Network // A US-based mutual aid organization to help trans people facing state violence and legal discrimination.
- TLDEF's Trans Health Project // Advice about insurance claims for gender affirming healthcare and procedures.
- TransLifeLine's ID change Library // A comprehensive guide to changing your name on any US legal document.
Support Hotlines:
- The Trevor Project // Web chat, phone call, and text message LGBTQ+ support hotline.
- TransLifeLine // A US/Canada LGBTQ+ phone support hotline service. The US line has Spanish support.
- LGBT Youthline.ca // A Canadian LGBT hotline support service with phone call and web chat support. (4pm - 9:30pm EST)
- 988lifeline // A US only Crisis hotline with phone call, text and web chat support. Dedicated staff for LGBTQIA+ youth 24/7 on phone service, 3pm to 2am EST for text and web chat.
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Me too... I'm envious I can't be.
There's games in where you are pregnant, so playing those helps me to cope, at least.
Role playing could definitely help. I might have to try some games where the player is preggers. Thanks for the idea :)
I’m sorry you are struggling with this too btw :(
If you're curious, Seeds of Destiny helped. It's actually a pretty dang wholesome RPG, so can def recommend. NSFW obviously. Most characters are hot as well.
That said, if I could have a succesful pregnancy, no matter how risky, even if it cost my life... I would do it in a heartbeat. If I die, at least the scientific contribution will help other people in the future with becoming pregnant.
To my dear child whom I will have a high chance of never carrying, -- I love you, and I love the world in its full rainbow of hues; and I would wish that I can do this. May you find this life when it calls to you.
Aww I’m sorry. You’re making me teary D: I’m sorry you can’t have a kiddo :(
That last paragraph made me want to cry.
It hurts even more when knowing that uterus transplants are already a thing. But it also elates me, as there is in fact a protocol in place for us to have these as well. I saved it in multiple ways so governments can't delete those protocols; deleting those would hurt parents-to-be.
I hope strongly that one day, I will be able to undergo surgery for that protocol. I will bleed, I will suffer, and I will have 'no' heard; but I will pull through, and will search the sunshine behind the cloud. There I will find flowers growing, and water and nourish the next generation; and the world will rejoice once more!