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What ruins porn videos for you? (kbin.melroy.org)
submitted 2 days ago by Fyrnyx@kbin.melroy.org to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world
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I have a few.

Camera shuttering sounds. I don't need to hear your camera, dude. Yeah I know most porn is produced and exploited but, don't need to hit it home doing this. Here is what I don't get, why not use inexpensive drone cameras to take footage or take shots? Who the fuck needs stupid people doing it?

Cameramen muffled or hearing. I don't need to hear you either. I don't give a fuck if you're enjoying it, just shut the hell up.

Sped-up previews or even sped-up videos because reasons? It just takes me out of the immersion, if there were any to be had.

Exaggerated sounds and moans. "UNNHHH!" "AHHH!!" "HNNN!" "OOOOOO!" slrshrlshlp splsplslspl moist sounds Just fucking mute it. Don't watch porn for audio.

Seeing that guy in a scene. You know, that awkward fucking guy who is part of the scene who just idly stands there just jerking off all like "nhhn yeah hrrr yeah oh so into this" I want a series of porn videos, where it is just beating that guy down.

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[โ€“] Anomnomnomaly@lemmy.org 10 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Ease of access to internet porn, ruined my enjoyment of porn.

[โ€“] Perspectivist@feddit.uk 2 points 2 days ago

I very much still enjoy it but my peak enjoyment is well behind me and now I've just been chasing that same high to no avail.

What (excessive) porn did ruin for me is my dopamine system, my expectations of women, my libido, my healthy coping strategies and at least two relationships.

I'm about a month off now. That's by far the longest time since I was 13.