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Wallets are twice as likely to be returned as people expect. And the interesting thing is this holds true more or less globally.
Reminded of when someone opened their car window and yelled to me on the sidewalk that I had dropped some cash on the ground :)
Last time I ran out to a parking lot to find someone who dropped some cash in a store, they split some of it with me!
I dream of finding the wallet stuffed with enough cash to dig me out of this mess, but in reality, if there's any way at all to get it back to who dropped it, I will. Found a wallet a few months ago on a day trip, laying in the road. Ending up using the names on the credit cards to Facebook stalk a dude, found his company website, called him, and met him a half hour later to return it. Had like 800 dollars in cash it. I just... Can't be an asshole, even when it would benefit me
Back in the 80s, I was at the Consumer Electronics Show in Vegas, and a guy left his wallet in our booth, stuffed with money.
I took it back to my room, and only removed his Driver's License, so I could see where he lived. I found out the area code for his city, called Information, and asked for his phone number. His name wasn't there, but there was one woman's listing with the same last name, so I called it, and reached his mother.
She was immediately worried, but I quickly explained that her son was fine, "But he left his wallet in my booth, and he's probably in a full on panic by now. Please call him, and let him know that he can pick it up at our booth tomorrow."
We didn't have cell phones back then, so she would have had to contact his company, find out what hotel he was staying in, and then get the message to him, but she must have done all that, because he came blasting into our booth the next morning, still in a panic.
I handed him his wallet, and he took out a $50 bill and tried to give it to me. I refused it, happy to do a good deed, but he threw it at me and ran out of the booth!
I was in Vegas, what do you think I did with it? It was gone 5 minutes after leaving my booth.
You're good people, don't regret it. Incidentally, I'd probably grab a handful of the cash and just hand it to whoever returned the wallet to me like that. It was lost anyway.
Dude was very appreciative, he was panicked because he had pictures and sentimental things in it. Did not offer a reward and we didn't ask... I did hope. But I didn't ask. Lol
I've been on the flip side of this. You're so panicked about getting your wallet back, and wondering if it was carelessness or thieves, that you don't even think of giving a reward if you get it back.
I think the worry about thieves also primes us to not want to give money, too, but that's just speculation.
I've also been the one delivering a lost wallet full of cash and got no reward, lol.
I would definitely make space for you in my lifeboat.
That's one of the nicest compliments I've ever gotten. Thank you!