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Do some women with sexual experience date a virgin? (sopuli.xyz)

submitted 2 days ago by Grimreaper@sopuli.xyz to c/askmen@lemmy.world

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I made a post on Showerthoughts saying if you are a guy and you are a virgin at 22 years old, you are fucked because most women in their 20s have sexual experience, so if you are a 22-year-old guy, a woman who’s 23, 24, 25, 26, 27, 28, 29, or 30 wouldn’t want to date you because they have sexual experience already.

However, I could be wrong, so do some women with sexual experience date a virgin? If so, why?

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[–] KokusnussRitter@discuss.tchncs.de 8 points 2 days ago

If I choose a sexual partner I think about me being safe, their ability to communicate (I like this, dislike that) and their ability to respect my wishes as well. This is not dependent on experience, instead there are many more factors.

The only reason I am even wondering about this, is because men are insecure and ashamed about their inexperience and belittle themselves or others. hint