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Is it normal to not value any other type of relationships other than romantic? Like, what if someone has friends but doesn’t value them or like them at all? They don’t dislike them, but they’re apathetic toward everyone who isn’t their boyfriend or girlfriend and don’t care whether they live or die. They don’t care about their children or their well-being. Is there anything wrong with this?

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[–] Chippys_mittens@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) (1 children)

I'd be careful throwing diagnostics around. Last thing you want is the individual doing some internet doctoring. Could lead to them excusing their behaviors due to self diagnosed nonsense or self medicating based on an uneducated hunch. Not saying you sound wrong necessarily, just dont wanna add fuel to the fire. The person in question should ABSOLUTELY seek professional help and ask these questions as soon as possible.

[–] kelpie_returns@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

I may have assumed this was someone asking about their parent or a friend, but that is a very good point regardless. Noted!