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I came here around the time the rif app shut down, and the general vibe I get from this place is much more negative than when I joined. Is Lemmy growing more toxic or is it just my imagination?

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[–] Know_not_Scotty_does@lemmy.world 28 points 3 days ago (5 children)

I have noticed more people inferring things from a small part of a reply and rather than read and try to understand it, they insted get upset about it and reply back about what they think the op said.

[–] shalafi@lemmy.world 12 points 3 days ago

Same with going off the headlines. I am well aware that we lose 90%+ of communication over text, but damn, some of these fucking people. You have to learn to couch your comment in such a way that even obvious sarcasm and the like is obvious.

To all those joking about being autists and not getting social clues, I see you.

[–] TubularTittyFrog@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

yep.

i will write out three paragraphs... get multiple replies about like three words I said that are taken totally out of context.

i'd say trolls/bots... but i know way too many people IRL who do the very same thing. they are just stupid assholes looking to cause drama to puff up themselves as 'outing' everyone as evil/bad because they are 'warriors' for justice. their entire existing is all about inflating their own ego and being willfully ignorant and their primary hobby in life is being 'offended' by anything/everything.

what i can't get is why people like being around people like this... but they do for some reason.

Same with going off the headlines. I am well aware that we lose 90%+ of communication over text, but damn, some of these fucking people. You have to learn to couch your comment in such a way that even obvious sarcasm and the like is obvious.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (1 children)

This has been a consistent issue I have seen more on Lemmy over Reddit since day one, TBH.

[–] AngryCommieKender@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

No it hasn't! That's just what they want you to believe! You heard nothing! Make him repent Asmodai!

OF ALL THE WATCHERS IN THE ROCK WHY DID I GET ONE THAT TALKS‽‽‽

[–] adespoton@lemmy.ca 7 points 3 days ago

It’s what comes with more users. As people you don’t know start writing in styles you’ve only seen parroting arguments you disagree with, the urge to shut things down increases.

Plus, there ends up being more stuff to read in the same amount of time, which leads to shallower reading to cover it all.

[–] Feathercrown@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

try to understand it

Why do you think they can't understand it? Are you saying their stupid? All lemmy users are stupid except you? Look at smarty mcsmartpants over here

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