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Well, in this society, I totally understand people needing substances to be honest.
What is there to be happy about in day to day? Maybe when you are a teenager, that girl brings you happiness. But its not a lot of happiness in the daily work routine that goes on for 50 years.
Actually you are meant to be sad so you consume stuff. That bland feeling you mention. Very good, you will buy shit to get out of it temporarily. Ice cream, games, phones, movies, you name it.
Your life is probably better than the vast majority of other people. But you choose to fixate on it being crappy for whatever reason.
It's your choice. But people like you weirdly seem to fixate on that 'oh if only i had more stuff than my life would be so much better'.
No im happy and I dont need more stuff. But I know what you are saying. Many people want more things.
Sometimes its very valid. If you cant find somewhere to live to start your life, that really sucks. But if you cant buy the latest car, well, not worth being sad about.