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I stumbled across this while researching old feminist publications. I can't really explain why I liked it so much.

I don't agree with the author's perspective, but it's a point of view I'd never heard before, and she writes beautifully, with wit and humor and pain.

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[–] Wren@lemmy.today 4 points 2 days ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

I took the whole thing as an honest emotional journey. She owns her feelings and learns that not everything is about her in the conclusion.

I wish I could find the essay she gives credit for changing her perspective, but it's since been taken down.