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[–] KAtieTot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 days ago* (last edited 4 days ago) (2 children)

I feel that was covered by saying "trends/social queues"

"Gaydar" is just making a guess based on social queues. Maybe it's an educated guess but it is a guess.

[–] AsoFiafia@lemmy.zip 8 points 4 days ago (1 children)

I completely agree with you.

I hate to be this person, but I have to ask: did you mean “cues?” A queue is a line or an order.

[–] ozymandias@lemmy.dbzer0.com 0 points 4 days ago (1 children)

no, that’s how someone straight would guess….
gaydar is more of an intuition

[–] KAtieTot@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 3 days ago (1 children)

Intuition - "quick and ready insight; the power of knowing things without conscious reasoning."

Iunno, I think that's covered by "social cueues and tendencies". Your intuition is still fueled by the things you perceive and isn't magic, or necessarily accurate.