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Never.
Wtf, that sounds really fucked up.
Edit, just to add: Both my parents also always knocked before entering, respected the answer "no" whenever I gave it (which, admittedly, wasn't often) plus never expected an explanation why, and we cleaned/tidied our own rooms, did our own laundry, etc, so that excuse was also never used. And they never, ever touched my computer, opened my mail or went through my phone.
Is it possible they did it in secret when we were at school or something? Sure.. I guess it's possible, but I truly doubt it. It would go against their own principles and personalities.
My parents never really gave me the idea I had to keep many secrets from them anyway. They weren't bigots, they weren't religious, there weren't really any taboos at all, so we could talk about anything and I was never severely punished for things. Sure, they'd get mad sometimes or disappointed, but I was never afraid of them. We could talk about anything. And even when they were mad, I knew I could go into my room and they wouldn't barge in after me without my permission. Privacy was always respected.