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Something, that if you found out the actual truth about, you'd feel like you knew all along but didn't just want to accept it?

No politics please.

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[โ€“] ArgumentativeMonotheist@lemmy.world 8 points 14 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago) (1 children)

There's nothing new since the last one, but the last one was a big one, one that apparently everyone was aware of besides myself: I DO have temper management issues and, before I irreparably fuck up my life, my afterlife and others' lives, I need to completely rethink my reactions and why I have them, and may God help me get better. I had this train of thought about a year ago and I haven't had any fights since. I know most folk here dgaf or are even offended by it, but I think God did help, and not just the internal psychological changes that happen due to not knowing what to do and asking help from Him.

[โ€“] zloubida@sh.itjust.works 2 points 2 hours ago

God helps, i'm convinced of that too. But there's no shame in seeking help from a professional too, there'a no stronger force to change one's life than when the spiritual and the psychological work together.