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That I don't have enough curves in the right places yet I can't manage to put more weight on. That I'll never be seen correctly for who I am due to my unfortunate bone structure.. I do have upcoming ffs so maybe that will change, but I remain pretty hopeless whenever there are mirrors around.
That's really rough mate, your bone structure is unfortunate and it stops people seeing you correctly. I understand the hopelessness... what would help you accept your body?
Honestly probably being accepted in more irl women's circles (I'm just rejected from all currently). Here in the US South that isn't really a possibility without passing unfortunately. A few years of hrt hasn't been sufficient in overcoming my bone structure, so I can't really see myself correctly most of the time...I can't really blame anyone for constantly misgendering me. I'm a they/she sort of trans enby but I just default to neutral pronouns because of it...and people still don't even acknowledge those. Being alive just hurts most of the time and I'm not sure that will ever change.