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[–] warbond@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago (2 children)

The standards were different back then

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 4 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

My ex-wife said she knew she could trust me because I used :) after a message.

:)

[–] warbond@lemmy.world 4 points 10 hours ago (1 children)

Wow, you do seem trustworthy! Same late 90s/early 2000s timeframe?

Spelling was one of the few bits of information you could get about a person without them directly telling you, so it's interesting that even a "face" is enough in those circumstances.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 2 hours ago

Late 2000s. You can tell a lot by the way someone types. Though we also divorced, so your mileage may vary.

[–] Overspark@piefed.social 2 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If you mean that most people write even worse now than 25 years ago then yes 😄

[–] iamdefinitelyoverthirteen@lemmy.world 1 points 7 hours ago (2 children)

I'd say the opposite, at least online. More people can type now than there were 25 years ago, and autocorrect on phones is mostly good nowadays.

[–] captainlezbian@lemmy.world 1 points 3 hours ago

Idk. Sure compared to 25 years ago, it's better, but autocorrect on phones is much worse than 10 years ago.

[–] Overspark@piefed.social 3 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

25 years ago the people that were online were sitting behind a PC, not swiping on their phone and hoping the autocorrect got it right. So every typing mistake was an actual typing mistake on a real keyboard by an actual person. The use of language online has definitely gone downhill when phones entered the picture.

[–] iamdefinitelyoverthirteen@lemmy.world 2 points 5 hours ago (1 children)

I get what you're saying now. I only meant that spelling and grammar have improved. As far as the quality of the writing itself, yeah, you may be right.

[–] Overspark@piefed.social 1 points 4 hours ago

Oh yeah, the tools to help you with that have gotten much better, I completely agree with that.