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Maybe I’m just too picky, but if the actor isn’t “my type” or I’m not attracted to him, I won’t enjoy the video. I have favorite actors (Jmac, Tommy Pistol, Ken Matsumoto, Charles Dera, Tyler Nixon, etc.), and a lot of the time I specifically look for videos with them instead of something new or random.

I’m curious what it’s like for you.

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[–] sneakypersimmon@lemmy.today 2 points 1 day ago

I honestly just searched for it because I have never heard the term polysexual applied in this way. I also wasn't trying to imply that polyamorous people engage in one night stands and casual sex, either, but you read into that as well.

I'm bisexual, I've been involved in the kink, poly, and LGBT+ community in my area for a long time. I wasn't trying to "no homo" anything, I just prefer using the term monogamish to describe my current relationship because that describes it really well:

First coined by legendary sex columnist Dan Savage, “monogamish” refers to a relationship style wherein mostly monogamous couples choose to have extra-relational sexual experiences, often sparingly and with strict boundaries that only allow for non-monogamous activity under very specific circumstances.