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Serious question.

Most people carry things they never tell anyone.

Not illegal things. Just thoughts that would damage relationships or reputations if they were said out loud.

Regret about past decisions. Things people hide from partners. Thoughts about friends or family they would never admit publicly.

Therapists exist for a reason, but most people never go to one.

So I was wondering something.

Would it actually be healthier if people had a place to post these thoughts completely anonymously?

No identity. No profile. Just the confession.

I’m building a small experiment called Backroom around this idea where people can post one-line anonymous secrets.

But I'm honestly curious if people would actually use something like that or if most secrets are better left unsaid.

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[–] celeste@kbin.earth 7 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

This idea reminds me of https://postsecret.com/ . I don't know if it's helpful, but it's interesting.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 6 points 3 hours ago (1 children)

PostSecret is interesting because it's anonymous but still curated.

What I'm experimenting with is even simpler.

No profiles. No identity. Just very short one-line confessions people were never supposed to say out loud.

More like raw thoughts than stories.

[–] Griffus@lemmy.zip 6 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

How about curation though? Having been on the internet for some decades, I can see something like this uncurated go one of two ways - wholesome as fuck or completely unhinged.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 5 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

That’s the interesting part.

If people know their name and profile are attached, they filter themselves.

When identity disappears, you sometimes get chaos, but you also get honesty people never show anywhere else.

The question is whether the honesty outweighs the chaos.

[–] Griffus@lemmy.zip 3 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Sadly people have getting more and more wild with their actual name and image attached over the last few years, but I like the initiative and hope that a wholesome spirit sets in quickly to make it a light on the otherwise muddy internet.

What about slop machine infestation prevention? Or is that something to work with further down the line?

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (2 children)

Honestly the format helps a lot.

One-line confessions with no profiles removes most incentives for bots or farming.

[–] Griffus@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Likes, comments and general engagement, or just the one line thought? I'd think less engagement also will help to keep it a good place. What do you plan there?

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

Mostly the one-line thought.

Engagement tends to change how people write.

[–] Griffus@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

My thought as well. Getting more and more on board and would frequent as both reader and contributer.

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 1 hour ago

That is actually the idea behind it.

People can read or post a single anonymous thought without building any identity around it.

Still experimenting with the format to see if people actually use it.

[–] Griffus@lemmy.zip 1 points 2 hours ago (1 children)

I like your optimism and hope you are right. Keep us posted on the projects development!

[–] humanobserver@lemmy.world 2 points 2 hours ago

Appreciate it.

I’m mostly curious what people actually say when identity disappears.