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I feel like the voting culture of Lemmy is not conductive to good conversation or anything more than blind agreement. It's certainly helped by the fact that Lemmy's algorithm is more willing to show newer posts and comments (as opposed to merely popular ones), but people on Lemmy seem to be very willing to downvote content that they don't agree with, or downvote news that they don't like (regardless of the informative quality of said news), or just downvote anything that may contradict their pre-existing notions of how stuff works. It's more hostile than Reddit, and it seems like everyone, especially in the political communities, is wanting to start an argument here, sometimes over the dumbest things. Look in your average Reddit comment thread, and you see pages of jokes, memes, people sharing stories, and just generally having a good time. Look in your average Lemmy comment thread, and you see two people arguing over a dumb political point.
I don’t like reading a lot of the defeatist, angry, antisocial type comments on here, but I feel like if I start blocking that stuff (like a lot of the political comms, but it’s also everywhere…), it’s going to feel too quiet😭
Those people most reply to ragebait. If you can avoid the bait you will not see a lot of it.
they also predominately come from the extremist instances, so you can just block those instances. for ever .world user who is like that, there seem to be dozens of .ml users who are like that, for example.
I think all the negative things you said are true of the other place as well, you just can’t see it.
Lemmy communities (at least by default), don’t rely on votes but on recency and activity.
It’s not perfect, but it’s pretty good.
As some others of said, I block communities that are not for me.