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[–] irvinefantasyno@beehaw.org 6 points 2 days ago (1 children)

Siiiiiiiiiiiigh

Why are the cis like this

[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

By this logic, anyone who isn't Black shouldn't talk for all of Black History Month. It's an absurd expectation.

[–] NVE_Girl@beehaw.org 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

That's a false equivalent, Black History Month is a full month, TDoV is one day.

No one is suggesting a total ban on speech. We’re pointing out the difference between participating in a conversation and directing it. The goal of a day like TDoV is for trans people to be the subject of the conversation, rather than the audience for someone else’s memories.

[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

You're still saying your supporters have no right to a voice unless they're exactly like you. That is a very slippery slope, since, ostensibly, the point of a day of awareness is to promote conversation. That's exactly the sort of argument people make to oppose trans rights in the first place.

[–] NVE_Girl@beehaw.org 4 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] Powderhorn@beehaw.org 1 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Then what are you saying? Because from my perspective, you're trying to proclaim activism without having taken Activism 098.

[–] NVE_Girl@beehaw.org 2 points 1 day ago

First day on beehaw as a trans woman. Sure do feel welcome here, thank you Powderhorn.